Girlfriends.....WTF........(rant)
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Mazdaspeedgirl
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I know....LinuxRacr said:
Yall are just some freaks!(upbum)
Mazdaspeedgirl
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errr....here's where I stress that this is my opinion: Life's too short to waste bickering. I'm not saying to give up, but if it goes on for more than a few months with no resolution, I would seriously consider what good can come of staying in the relationship.APEXistud said:
dude,
not every guy can be so blessed to have such a cool woman as me. My woman is mazdaspeedgirl, and she is the s**t as most of you know. I think that you need to do one of two things; leave with your tail tucked between your legs or if you really love this girl make her feel as though she the only thing that is important to you in this world. Now, since you are not me and you don't have mazdaspeedgirl as your woman, I, yes I, suggest you start kissing a little ass!!! and I don't mean sucking up, I mean really getting your nose into it. I love diane as much, if not more ( and i am pretty sure it is more) than most of you do. There isn't any thing I woundn't do to make sure she is happy. so get to work!!!!
not every guy can be so blessed to have such a cool woman as me. My woman is mazdaspeedgirl, and she is the s**t as most of you know. I think that you need to do one of two things; leave with your tail tucked between your legs or if you really love this girl make her feel as though she the only thing that is important to you in this world. Now, since you are not me and you don't have mazdaspeedgirl as your woman, I, yes I, suggest you start kissing a little ass!!! and I don't mean sucking up, I mean really getting your nose into it. I love diane as much, if not more ( and i am pretty sure it is more) than most of you do. There isn't any thing I woundn't do to make sure she is happy. so get to work!!!!
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Mazdaspeedgirl
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A gentleman never asks, and a lady never tells...lol (k)enry said:
Mazdaspeedgirl
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About her cheating, I feel for you, man.spoolinmp3 said:
you are so right, though. You should never let anyone get in the way of what you want to do or being the person that you are. And you know what else? A person who respected you would not want to deny you the freedom to be yourself. Period.
I wasted too many years on guys who didn't let me hang with my car buddies because they were insecure, or they were cheating. They wouldn't even let me go out with my sister or go see my parents!!! yes, I have been in that BAD of a relationship. And you know something--you never see it sneaking up on you! One minute you're thinking "Awww, he must care about me a lot becasue he doesn't want me to go to the car show by myself." The next, he is telling you that you have to stay home when you get home from work and that you cannot go out after dark--all the while, he was going out with other girls after dark.... Don't go there! Don't get trapped in an endless cycle of mistrust, deception, and manipulation. Cuz once you do, most people mistake it for "love". BAH! I wasted FIVE years on the aforementioned jerk. For what? NOTHING! I was in total denial and didn't have the sense to see it coming. But now I can smell a manipulative jerk a mile away.
uhhh, sorry for the rant, but you are way too young to be wasting time. And the saying "there's more fish in the sea" is so f*cking cliche, but it's the damn truth. As easy as it was to get used to this one, it will be just so with others. If i had been a dumbass and "tried to work it out" with the last controlling bastard that beat me, I would have never found Greg(who is the best guy in the whole world).
**** the psyco-ass people in this world. I don't need em. Don't feel sorry for em either. Recognize them, brush them off, and move on.
Wow, I just totally got back into that rant. But I stress this because I hate to see people in mental anguish when it doesn't haev to be that way. KNOW that you are worth having a wonderful, perfect mate. They are out there. Her insecurity is not your problem. It could take her years to get over it. Ask yourself if you have the time to deal with it. No? I think you've already discovered that you don't. That's okay. It's okay to be selfish. Your life is about you. Do with it what you want.
Okay, okay. that's enough.
Mazdaspeedgirl
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And one more thing..
Granted, a relationship is about working thru life's problems, but (me personally) I don't have time to be someone's therapist for pre-relationship psycological issues.
okay, I am done. I think.
Granted, a relationship is about working thru life's problems, but (me personally) I don't have time to be someone's therapist for pre-relationship psycological issues.
okay, I am done. I think.
Mazdaspeedgirl
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Ahhh, you caught that post.APEXistud said:
He's passed out on the sofa now.Just before he did, I read to him a post of yours we missed: the part abotu you gave up car shows and other stuff for her. He was a little more than miffed.
Really, someone who cares and is mentally healthy will make an effort to be a part of the things that you like to do. I recall you went to the mall with her, which implies that you go shopping with her for her pleasure. It should be a two way street, see?
Mazdaspeedgirl
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lol...i gotta go to bed. g'night Stud.APEXistud said:
Hope all goes well. If not, that's what I'm here for. 
you are so right, though. You should never let anyone get in the way of what you want to do or being the person that you are. And you know what else? A person who respected you would not want to deny you the freedom to be yourself. Period.
I wasted too many years on guys who didn't let me hang with my car buddies because they were insecure, or they were cheating. They wouldn't even let me go out with my sister or go see my parents!!! yes, I have been in that BAD of a relationship. And you know something--you never see it sneaking up on you! One minute you're thinking "Awww, he must care about me a lot becasue he doesn't want me to go to the car show by myself." The next, he is telling you that you have to stay home when you get home from work and that you cannot go out after dark--all the while, he was going out with other girls after dark.... Don't go there! Don't get trapped in an endless cycle of mistrust, deception, and manipulation. Cuz once you do, most people mistake it for "love". BAH! I wasted FIVE years on the aforementioned jerk. For what? NOTHING! I was in total denial and didn't have the sense to see it coming. But now I can smell a manipulative jerk a mile away
This is all so true mazdaspeed girl. Damn you are so correct
not to worry this was almost 5 years ago and I learned so much since then. I can spot a manipulative person a mile away as well. I am so happy with my current fiance and she lets me do what I love. To top it all of she is helping me with my business and is extremely knowledgeable about cars. Its so cool to go to the hangout and she asks me........hey do you think we should lean out the mixture a bit via the link at about 3 grand, it felt a bit rich and maybe advance some timiming at 4 grand. Not to many chicks that I know of that can tune an engine managment system for a turbo on the fly
I wasted too many years on guys who didn't let me hang with my car buddies because they were insecure, or they were cheating. They wouldn't even let me go out with my sister or go see my parents!!! yes, I have been in that BAD of a relationship. And you know something--you never see it sneaking up on you! One minute you're thinking "Awww, he must care about me a lot becasue he doesn't want me to go to the car show by myself." The next, he is telling you that you have to stay home when you get home from work and that you cannot go out after dark--all the while, he was going out with other girls after dark.... Don't go there! Don't get trapped in an endless cycle of mistrust, deception, and manipulation. Cuz once you do, most people mistake it for "love". BAH! I wasted FIVE years on the aforementioned jerk. For what? NOTHING! I was in total denial and didn't have the sense to see it coming. But now I can smell a manipulative jerk a mile away
This is all so true mazdaspeed girl. Damn you are so correct
not to worry this was almost 5 years ago and I learned so much since then. I can spot a manipulative person a mile away as well. I am so happy with my current fiance and she lets me do what I love. To top it all of she is helping me with my business and is extremely knowledgeable about cars. Its so cool to go to the hangout and she asks me........hey do you think we should lean out the mixture a bit via the link at about 3 grand, it felt a bit rich and maybe advance some timiming at 4 grand. Not to many chicks that I know of that can tune an engine managment system for a turbo on the fly
Mazdaspeedgirl
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Thanx!spoolinmp3 said:This is all so true mazdaspeed girl. Damn you are so correct
Dude, you have a great woman. Just remember, you deserve her.not to worry this was almost 5 years ago and I learned so much since then. I can spot a manipulative person a mile away as well. I am so happy with my current fiance and she lets me do what I love. To top it all of she is helping me with my business and is extremely knowledgeable about cars. Its so cool to go to the hangout and she asks me........hey do you think we should lean out the mixture a bit via the link at about 3 grand, it felt a bit rich and maybe advance some timiming at 4 grand. Not to many chicks that I know of that can tune an engine managment system for a turbo on the fly
And for the rest of you, if you aren't already as happy as me and spoolinmp3 are, don't worry-your soulmate is out there.
I showed up kinda late for this discussion. Damn busy weekend!
I'm glad it sounds like things are looking better now. In the past I had an ex get mad at me for the exact same thing. At first I was quite defensive then I thought about my actions and I feel that I did tend to look around too much when out in public. Trust me, it wasn't something I was even consciously doing, just without thinking. Now in your case, you were looking for a friend, but from her perspective, she'd likely noticed you looking around in the past and just wasn't feeling secure about herself.
Obviously guys look at girls...it's what we do. But it's different when you are with your gf as compared to with the boys. Last night I was out with some guy friends and we all took notice of the hostess at the restaurant(never seen such a short skirt in my life!). Now if I was with my girl, I'd try to definitely not look at the hostess as nobody likes the feeling that their loved one is checking out someone else really. In the case of me, I just tried to conciously make an effort to pay attention to my ex when we went out.
When I go out now with my current gf, I honestly don't even notice others very much. I look around at stuff in stores, but I truly "only have eyes for her" when I'm with her.
As for saying she's beautiful...don't know what to tell you there. When I look at Cherrelyn, I just can't help myself and have to tell her how beautiful I find her...it's not something I feel I have to do..just something that automatically comes to me.
Last thing then I'll shutup....don't give up on going to car shows. Perhaps try to get her involved and interested in things you do. Remember it's a two-way road. Maybe she has a hobby or interest of her own. Try to take part in that and she'll pick up on that and return the favor.
Good luck with everything dude!
I'm glad it sounds like things are looking better now. In the past I had an ex get mad at me for the exact same thing. At first I was quite defensive then I thought about my actions and I feel that I did tend to look around too much when out in public. Trust me, it wasn't something I was even consciously doing, just without thinking. Now in your case, you were looking for a friend, but from her perspective, she'd likely noticed you looking around in the past and just wasn't feeling secure about herself.
Obviously guys look at girls...it's what we do. But it's different when you are with your gf as compared to with the boys. Last night I was out with some guy friends and we all took notice of the hostess at the restaurant(never seen such a short skirt in my life!). Now if I was with my girl, I'd try to definitely not look at the hostess as nobody likes the feeling that their loved one is checking out someone else really. In the case of me, I just tried to conciously make an effort to pay attention to my ex when we went out.
When I go out now with my current gf, I honestly don't even notice others very much. I look around at stuff in stores, but I truly "only have eyes for her" when I'm with her.
As for saying she's beautiful...don't know what to tell you there. When I look at Cherrelyn, I just can't help myself and have to tell her how beautiful I find her...it's not something I feel I have to do..just something that automatically comes to me.
Last thing then I'll shutup....don't give up on going to car shows. Perhaps try to get her involved and interested in things you do. Remember it's a two-way road. Maybe she has a hobby or interest of her own. Try to take part in that and she'll pick up on that and return the favor.
Good luck with everything dude!
banned bandit
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Mr REPU said:dude,
not every guy can be so blessed to have such a cool woman as me. My woman is mazdaspeedgirl, and she is the s**t as most of you know. I think that you need to do one of two things; leave with your tail tucked between your legs or if you really love this girl make her feel as though she the only thing that is important to you in this world. Now, since you are not me and you don't have mazdaspeedgirl as your woman, I, yes I, suggest you start kissing a little ass!!! and I don't mean sucking up, I mean really getting your nose into it. I love diane as much, if not more ( and i am pretty sure it is more) than most of you do. There isn't any thing I woundn't do to make sure she is happy. so get to work!!!!
tell the truth!!! your just dating her cause she has cool cars!!!!
Mazdaspeedgirl
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LOL! You know it's funny you say that, cuz when we first started dating, he got bit by the zoom-zoom bug hard from driving my 99 miata. So hard, in fact, he had to go out and buy his own miata!banned bandit said:
tell the truth!!! your just dating her cause she has cool cars!!!!
Here he is with Akira, my 99 miata:
Josie is his miata. She's in my sig.
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