Update!
Ok guys, I may have a combo that works perfectly and lets you completely remove the second O2 sensor.
First I bought a universal O2 simulator from
www.o2sim.com for $25. This is NOT the same thing as using a resistor since this uses a 555 timer to pulse the signal within the correct voltage range. This takes care of the signal itself, but does not simulate the heater circuit.
Next I went to RadioShack and bought a
10 ohm / 10 watt wirewound resistor for $1.90 including tax. I soldered this inline with the heater circuit wires. Here is a diagram from o2sim.com that has been modified to show the heater circuit sim. The wire colors don't match up to the factory connector, so pay attention to the diagram. I had to use a multimeter and a service manual to figure this out. I recommend that you at least check the voltage with ignition on to differentiate between the heater power and heater ground wires.
I soldered everything together on the sensor side of the plug so that I can install and remove it simply by disconnecting it. Ideally you would pick up an extra O2 connector and make this using it, however I just cut the stock O2 off and used that connector.
Now, before you run out and do this, let me test it out for a bit. So far I haven't thrown a code, but I have only started the car 3 times and have only driven about 15 miles on it. If I do throw a code, it will most likely be for the heater circuit due to me picking the wrong resistor (I guessed that a 10 ohm / 10 watt would be the right range). If that happens, I will try a 50 ohm / 25 watt resistor.
I will try to get a couple pics up ASAP. If this works out, then people will have an all-in-one replacement for the secondary O2.