Sapril, fishing for compliments can lead to more than one bargains for... I'm sure you didn't like the responses you got the last time you put yourself out there. Really, for your own sake, don't you think you should stop asking people to critic you? You should have more confidence than to define yourself by others' opinions of your physical appearance. Why haven't you ever asked what people thought of your personality? (I know that you got THOSE anyway, but still...)
In the words of Judge Judy (whom I both love and hate), "Beauty fades; Stupid is forever."