Rant about the ex

[Diehonda]

So she didn't like the dirty sanchez and didn't want to tell her mom that is why she left?

Oh and diehonda@yahoo.com (glare)

Just move on, you will be hurt a few more times before you find the one you marry. Just don't compare the next girl to the old one.

 

[Drake13]

All right MP3MOOSE i'll break down last nights event for you just so you understand for future references. And i'll add a good point Yashart_MP3 made as well...

Last night my ex called... i just so happened i was on the phone with this other girl (good friend of mine) as well. Her phone has a feature to tell if the person your calling is on the line.. like call waiting..something like that. Anyways i got off the line but didn't get to click over in time. She called back and started to trip out asking who I was on the phone with. First thing went through my mind is.. wtf you broke up with me lol why should i tell you. But knowing how insecure she is, and she knows the girl i was talking to i told her. Anyways we got into it heavy on the phone and long story short she came over because we have a family plan thru Cingular and we need to get our own lines and I have the host account.

Just as Yashart_MP3 said it went in both directions.. she said how come you never called/text me you don't even care, if you cared you would have atleast called....
She also got so worked up over the last couple of days wondering (how come he isn't trying to call me/text me)....

You want to know what I said? I said "Because I tried to talk to you the first couple of days we broke up and all I was doing was pushing you farther away from me.. that is the last thing in the world i want to do is push the one I love away from me so I was scared to call" or something like that.
I flipped the script on her ass and she knew it. She said it herself she wanted me to call her all the time and keep trying to work things out but she didn't realize how strong of a person I really was.

MP3MOOSE:
Life is crazy dude.. this is the second love the other was 2.5 years now this one 9months.. It happens and the best thing to do FOR YOURSELF is learn how women are and understand them better. Try to see the ending coming and be the man to make the first step to make it better. But remember its a 50/50 deal..

 

[chucko642]

Dude, females just suck all around.

Yeah I said it, what of it!?

 

[Hughes412]

Dude, females just suck all around.

Yeah I said it, what of it!?

Are you looking to get banned? You seem to be on the right road.(poke)
In order to day 1

Who the f cares!?

Wow, what a great, productive response.

Please keep nonsense posts like this to yourself in the future.

number2

How about you eat s*** and die.

I have just as much of a right to post anything on here as you do even though it may not be what you want to hear. Go cry to somone else that might actually give a ****!!

After looking at all of your previous posts combined with this one, I think someone needs a nap and a time out.

As for all of that "right" that you have to post anything on here...well, that's going to be revoked until tomorow. See you then, Mary.

 

[k-lea]

Dude, females just suck all around.

Yeah I said it, what of it!?

ROCK ON.

 

[sanblaster]

Wow i didn't expect a ban from an ex thread...

 

[LEXi73]

lol ya thats a new one! what an ass. all i can say is good luck and sometimes its better to just leave things alone and move on when its over. Sry to hear man.

 

[quicksilvermp5]

"Lose one, let go to get one. Left one, lose some to win some" ...sorry i had to quote Jay-Z on this. some good pointers on this thread guys and much props for that. i'm actually on the same boat as you right now mp3moose... going through some rough s*** with the gf who i was with for 2 years right now. some shady stuff that's been happening and it makes me crazy dealing wit it. i don't want to go through details for this aint my thread. jus to sum it all up, she told me she don't know what she really wants and doesn't know if she wanted to be with me(while waiting for the right one, have fun with the wrong one)that was harsh...sad part too is that it was easier for her to let go coz she's talking to someone else right now, in which she admitted when she was about to get caught by me. We were just ok 4/5 days ago. I would admitt that i was hurt, i mean, who wouldn't? If you have faith, "HE" wouldn't take something good away from you without replacing it with a better one! "HE" referring to GOD. just my .02 guys.

 

[Rosshole]

Hey man, women due crazy and irrational things...

I call it the "PMS storm."

It consistently rolls through monthly. Sometimes the storm has high winds and hail, and sometimes it is mearly a sunshower.

Ride out the storm.... or find a new PMS storm to attempt to tame.

Best of luck to you!

Rosco

 

[Rosshole]

Guys remember the golden rule. The one who wants it more loses.

I have given this advise many times.

 

[Drake13]

I have given this advise many times.

That is very true.. every guy ask him this question. How many times have they been in a relationship where the girl was all over you.. did EVERYTHING for you was all about YOU. Then what happen.. YOU are the one that let it go.. or you felt smothered... When its the other way around and the guy wants her back real bad its the same as the female side of it..

 

[Drake13]

"Lose one, let go to get one. Left one, lose some to win some" ...sorry i had to quote Jay-Z on this. some good pointers on this thread guys and much props for that. i'm actually on the same boat as you right now mp3moose... going through some rough s*** with the gf who i was with for 2 years right now. some shady stuff that's been happening and it makes me crazy dealing wit it. i don't want to go through details for this aint my thread. jus to sum it all up, she told me she don't know what she really wants and doesn't know if she wanted to be with me(while waiting for the right one, have fun with the wrong one)that was harsh...sad part too is that it was easier for her to let go coz she's talking to someone else right now, in which she admitted when she was about to get caught by me. We were just ok 4/5 days ago. I would admitt that i was hurt, i mean, who wouldn't? If you have faith, "HE" wouldn't take something good away from you without replacing it with a better one! "HE" referring to GOD. just my .02 guys.

That is very true.. remember how God tested Job?

 

[Rush]

Thrid: Not trying to come at you wrong.. but you became a WUSS. You let her walk all over you.. You became this "NICE GUY" during the time of your relationship. Sounds like you let her get her way.. did EVERYTHING to please her when in fact it was really hurting your relationship. Women like guys who are cock and funny. They like it when you bash on them and arn't afraid to call them out. They like a little bit of serious and humor put together.
Example.. You see a female who looks good who is carrying one of those somewhat big purses.. you say " hey nice purse" She would be caught off gaurd and be like "thanks." then say " wow what the hell are you caring in there a second pair of cloths and your entire makeup collection?" with a little smirk. She will be so caught off gaurd by your remark she will either laugh and walk away. The ones that walk away just mean they might be having "one of those days" or are a b****. Example of not letting her get her way : You are driving down the road and your favorite rock song comes on and you turn it up.. she says " please babe.. its load" and turns it down.. You look at her and turn it up ever loader then what it was before. It might seem like it would cause problems but in the end she will respect you more because you arn't letting her get her way. Feel me?

Being in love is one thing.. being a complete wuss is another. For the sake of argument the actions displayed lead to WUSS. Its a fact women are more attacted to the bad boy guys then the NICE GUY'S. So by keeping it freash throughout the relationship with cocky & funny and still maintaining your nice guy personality you can't go wrong.

This is some of THE most incorrect nonsense I've ever read.

First major correction -- WOMEN are not attracted to 'bad boys'. GIRLS are. How many level-headed, confident, grown women do you see dating 'bad boys'? Very, very few. What the hell does a truly mature woman need with some asshat who's going to behave like that? Your example about 'turning the music down' is great -- in that it's a wonderful instance of what a woman will NOT put up with. It's ridiculous.

Grow up.

Eventually, you get to a point where you realize that real relationships aren't games. It's not about who flipped the script around on who, who outsmarted who, who's the one with bigger balls, and all that stupid horseshit. It's about handling yourselves like ADULTS. You show each other respect, speak to each other honestly and openly, and if there's a problem or if somebody's upset -- you sit down and discuss is rationally and willing to compromise.

Then you won't have to worry about OMG, who's gonna call first and OMG, I'm gonna be the bigger thug and ignore the phone calls and OMGOMGOMG.

Thank God I don't do that crap anymore. Though really, I never did it in the first place. It's stupid, a waste of time, and results in nothing but misunderstandings and even more frustrations.

 

[JDM-P5]

This is some of THE most incorrect nonsense I've ever read.

First major correction -- WOMEN are not attracted to 'bad boys'. GIRLS are. How many level-headed, confident, grown women do you see dating 'bad boys'? Very, very few. What the hell does a truly mature woman need with some asshat who's going to behave like that? Your example about 'turning the music down' is great -- in that it's a wonderful instance of what a woman will NOT put up with. It's ridiculous.

Grow up.

Eventually, you get to a point where you realize that real relationships aren't games. It's not about who flipped the script around on who, who outsmarted who, who's the one with bigger balls, and all that stupid horseshit. It's about handling yourselves like ADULTS. You show each other respect, speak to each other honestly and openly, and if there's a problem or if somebody's upset -- you sit down and discuss is rationally and willing to compromise.

Then you won't have to worry about OMG, who's gonna call first and OMG, I'm gonna be the bigger thug and ignore the phone calls and OMGOMGOMG.

Thank God I don't do that crap anymore. Though really, I never did it in the first place. It's stupid, a waste of time, and results in nothing but misunderstandings and even more frustrations.

So true.
I love women.

 

[Drake13]

This is some of THE most incorrect nonsense I've ever read.

First major correction -- WOMEN are not attracted to 'bad boys'. GIRLS are. How many level-headed, confident, grown women do you see dating 'bad boys'? Very, very few. What the hell does a truly mature woman need with some asshat who's going to behave like that? Your example about 'turning the music down' is great -- in that it's a wonderful instance of what a woman will NOT put up with. It's ridiculous.

Grow up.

Eventually, you get to a point where you realize that real relationships aren't games. It's not about who flipped the script around on who, who outsmarted who, who's the one with bigger balls, and all that stupid horseshit. It's about handling yourselves like ADULTS. You show each other respect, speak to each other honestly and openly, and if there's a problem or if somebody's upset -- you sit down and discuss is rationally and willing to compromise.

Then you won't have to worry about OMG, who's gonna call first and OMG, I'm gonna be the bigger thug and ignore the phone calls and OMGOMGOMG.

Thank God I don't do that crap anymore. Though really, I never did it in the first place. It's stupid, a waste of time, and results in nothing but misunderstandings and even more frustrations.

Well you must be in your 30's and married or something..
Everything you just stressed follows under the second thing i said:

Communication
Communication
Trust

which makes or breaks the relationship..

 

[Rush]

Well you must be in your 30's and married or something..
Everything you just stressed follows under the second thing i said:

Communication
Communication
Trust

which makes or breaks the relationship..

I'm 24. I'm anything but 30-something and married.

And if you're such a believer in communication and trust, you wouldn't be playing games and whanot with whatever girls you're involved with. You wouldn't have to.

Just my $.02 ..

 

[Drake13]

I'm 24. I'm anything but 30-something and married.

And if you're such a believer in communication and trust, you wouldn't be playing games and whanot with whatever girls you're involved with. You wouldn't have to.

Just my $.02 ..

Dude i'm not saying I play games... define that for me.

What i'm saying (trying to stay on topic about MP3MOOSE) is the communication was lost.. by doing some stuff during the relationship it might be able to help, but its always a 50/50 deal.

 

[Rush]

Well dude.. let me give you a little player advise. Seeing from what you have wrote you really didn't have a good friend to vent to. Let me start out by your mistakes ( just take the pain ).

First: When you guys broke up, you tried TOO HARD.. The harder you tried to find out the truth/work things out. You just pushed her away. Why? Because you came accross as desprate. She left you.. you did you best. Instead of "stalking her" you should of acted like you didn't care (which is hard trust me). Instead of e-mailing ect.. you should have left her alone because then she would be wonder... damn how come he hasn't called me or tried to get in touch or something? And then her mind starts thinking and BAM! RING RING RING..

^^^ A little 'player' advice? I'm sorry, but if that isn't a direct reference to playing games with a female, then I don't know what is. Not to mention you saying the whole 'you should've acted like you didn't care' .. Um, acted? Honesty is the best policy.

But you're right. Back to Moose's whole problem. While it does suck that the girl bailed and gave no reasons -- shouldn't that be enough to make you want to wash your hands of her? Why would you want to continue speaking with (nevermind being in a relationship with) someone who's been misleading you and then drops you for no apparent cause?

I would've cut her off completely. Period. It sounds like she isn't even worth a second thought, nevermind all this stress.

 

[Diehonda]

Rush is my hero!

In all relationships it comes down to communication, compromise, and caring. All of them will have ups and downs it just depends on how the two parties communicate, if they care enough about each other, and compromise to result in a solution that both parties agree with.

Been married six years, I know ups and downs and you have to learn to compromise. My wife also said that she would not have dated me when I was one of the "bad boys" because she wants to know that the guy is level headed enough to see what he wants in the future. Most bad boys don't that is why they get in more trouble, they only live in the present.

 

[mspdfreak]

Thats right, its my turn.

So VERY long story short. Dated a girl fro 2 years, quit my job to move to hers, went in debt several grand, gave her the world at every chance. She up and dumped me on our 2 year anny, gave me no reason, said that she didn't even have to tell me, gave no indication that there were problems. She even told my mom the day before that "she had an amazing son".

So after a month of no contact (her choice) i pushed for reasons via email. She made some up and lied about things that did or didn't happen. So I refuted them and she got backed into a corner with no reasons so she cut me off again. (No email, blocked me on IM, etc.) I recently figured out she had been leading me on for roughly a year. She claims "it wasn't leading on " in her mind. I think telling someone you love them and want to marry them when you don't is a lie, but thats just me. I must be crazy or something.

So through all of this, I just loved her, was nice to her, and only refuted facts when I was slandered. I never cused at her or called her anything bad. Figuring she was just being stubborn and would come around eventually I let things slide. So I got pissed after finding that most of our relationship was a lie and that she never spoke up when there were problems and called her parents. Her mom freaked out on me and said I was stalking her and that she didn't have to have reasons. I mean, I expect that her mom would stand up for her, but not listening to reason and blindly believing something is just F ed up. And I don't see how not calling, not emailing, not talking to her and having no contact is stalking. Again, apparently I am retarded again.

So I've had enough. The story is must longer and more insane on her part, but you don't want to read that.

Anybody want to buy some old, used ex girlfriend stuff?

She's banging someone else, probably someone you know.