Wow, you guys like drama alright.
Well I had a quick read over this and it seems there is a lot of god advise here. I definately don't think I am a wuss. I agree that giving people a little more time or an extra chance when they mess up is a litlte wussish, but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. I know the cocky guys get the girls, but that just isn't me. Even if I wanted to be a cocky asshole its just not in my nature. If it works for you guys, cool.
I do deserve some reasons from her even if they are hurtful or something which I seriously doubt because I did treat her like a princess. The only response I got from her was "I don't know". Everything happens for a reason. Even if its a bad, selfcentered or misunderstood reason, its still a reason.
I agree communication is key. My ex definately had trouble with that which simply isn't my fault. I gave her ample opportunities to communicate with me and I have the pateince of Job with her. I'd give you guys examples, but it just takes too long to type.
I never was desperate for her for the record. I just wanted to make things right even if that meant we weren't together. Sure I miss her and the good times we had, but I can live my life just fine without her. I am pretty solid on who I am and I am totally fine with it.
BTW, she definately isn't sleeping with someone else. I dated her for a year and 10 months before we slept together. So, seems to me she just changed her mind and instead of talking to me she got out. Again, just a guess because I don't have any word from her.
So, I wrote a long email calling her out on everything and called her some not so nice things. She'll get over it and can't say I didn't try in every other way.
Anywho, thats pretty much it. She sucks at life. Seriously, do any women not suck out there? Something very similar happened to me a few years ago. That girl finally grew up and has done nothing but say she is sorry and has realized her mistakes. So, any girls out there that aren't going to act like a 12 year old? I is totally single so BOOM...uh, yeah I am awesome and other stuff. Is that a good pick up line?
Thanks for listening and such. Good ole mazda forums...we know drama.