g/f question??

[2words]

So i have been dating this chick for a yr or so. we have had our ups and downs like all. then im looking over her shoulder one day why shes online and notice something. so shes gone and i do some investigating and notice she has a little profile on the net for singles.. what should i do. we havent been getting along for like 2 weeks and its on her. not me shes been a b^&*%.. so what should i do about this profile?

 

[Matthew]

obviously get rid ofher.

 

[LinuxRacr]

I think you know what you need to do. Ask about it.

 

[LinuxRacr]

obviously get rid ofher.

(mswerd)

About that time there eh chap?

 

[ottawaP5]

You should answer to her add pretending you're someone else and get her to meet you. Then you tell her its over.

 

[2words]

yea maybe. she says we have been dating for a yr and i dont tell her how i feel about her. or "i love you" O YEA this is the reason why cause im not gonna get burnt again.

 

[2words]

You should answer to her add pretending you're someone else and get her to meet you. Then you tell her its over.

that would be crazy. haha

 

[ottawaP5]

that would be crazy. haha

It would be so worth the money spent too!

 

[never Ender]

she has a little profile on the net for singles..

link me.

 

[mp5jeff]

i think you should do ottawa's idea, i was just going to tell you to make your own up and talk to her, with her knowing it's you, but this idea is much better...

 

[Matthew]

link me.

(rofl)

 

[pr5owner]

wow sounds familiar, my situation ended in her dumping me after cheating LOL so be prepared, i would talk it out if i were you,

 

[Mad Hatter]

Give her some curb rash. (upyours)

 

[Demonic-Speed]

I say reply to the ad, it "might" spark things up again, and if it does not then tell her it is over...

 

[2words]

ah who knows. women are so unpredictable. once she starts on me for something im going to have the ad printed off and whip it out on her.

 

[SuperP5]

You should answer to her add pretending you're someone else and get her to meet you. Then you tell her its over.

I've done that. But if she finds out that you pretend to be someone....it's gonna sucks!

 

[laracroft]

She's looking for something you guys dont have anymore. A spontanious and exciting relationship. Things that seem new are always more "attractive" to someone who is bored in the relationship. Ask her why she did the profile and see what the excuse is. $20 says if you try something new and pull something special out of the thin air, you may get a good reaction and it may change things. If it seems that she is already dating outside, then make your own decision on where you want things to go. She may just have put that up to see if other people were "interested" to see if she still feels that she's still attractive. Maybe to get attention even. Again, may just be a sign of boredom and routine. If you want to try to save the relationship, now is the time to shake things up and quick.

 

[chuyler1]

Whether you do it or not it's still over...there is nothing to loose here. The best would be if she breaks up with you and says she found someone else before she meets her new online partner and finds out...its you!

 

[2words]

Whether you do it or not it's still over...there is nothing to loose here. The best would be if she breaks up with you and says she found someone else before she meets her new online partner and finds out...its you!

i think she just wants to know if she attractive or not or appealing to other guys. she wants that security or confiedence booster. she has been unhappy with work, at home, and alot of diffent things. i guess she needs a change maybe but i think i do also at times. blah blah blah

 

[offroad_sport]

this is an interesting one. i think its wrong of her to have started this profile. if she has a problem with the relationship than she should have confronted you about it. i dont understand why people cant just be direct and straight forward. i definitely think it should be ended, i wouldnt even play with the idea of giving her a second chance. you dont want to date someone like that. trust is a huge issue and who knows what else she has done.