i get impatient too. sometimes i get too excited and want to do everything at once. based on your explanation of what the plug looks like - it's running rich (too much gas in the gas/air ratio). no need for panic - could be caused by dirty air filter. replace air filter (if you haven't done that recently) and then check plugs down the road to see if you are still running rich. for more info on spark plug analysis check out this link.
http://www.motocross.com/motoprof/moto/mcycle/plug2/plug2.htm
http://www.motocross.com/motoprof/moto/mcycle/plug2/plug2.htm