g/f question??

[laracroft]

Those that have never thought about putting yourself on a profile on the net raise your hand......

chances are... everyone has at one point or another. You just have to find out why she actually did (and not just thought about it) and why she's unhappy at this point. I dont think it's grounds for a breakup at this point. Read my response again... I still think the same reasons are what they are.

 

[Mad Hatter]

What do you want out of the relationship?? That's what it really boils down to. You're not married, but if you were, I'd suggest doing what you had to do to work things out. If you want to work things out try some counceling or something. That is if she wants to as well. Either way good luck.

 

[2words]

no im not looking to get married. well not right now anyway but in the future thats always up for thought. anyway ill confront her on it when the time is right. right now i have a stomach ache maybe its the flue aaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh. anyway thanks guys.

 

[MisterT]

You better dump her before she dumps you and you feel pissed off since you had a heads up on things!! I am serious! I was seeing this girl for a while and was losing interest and got pissed off that she broke things off with me before I could do so with her. I was hanging on only for sexual reasons and came out as the one being broken up with. At least then she will be the one shocked and you will get the satisfaction of the experience!(evil)

 

[MisterT]

Those that have never thought about putting yourself on a profile on the net raise your hand......

chances are... everyone has at one point or another. You just have to find out why she actually did (and not just thought about it) and why she's unhappy at this point. I dont think it's grounds for a breakup at this point. Read my response again... I still think the same reasons are what they are.

For her to do that and have the nerve to be surfing the net for dudes when he was present is disrespectful as hell in my opinion. Kick tha b**** to the curb. It sounds to me like you are not interested in her any more any way!!

 

[MP3skaterNC]

its simple PHDTS.

 

[Mr. Win]

dump her ass...

 

[1sty]

Does this profile tell you for how long its been active?
I'd be curious.
Regardless I'd confront her about it and let her know it bothers you and if she's partialy back on the market that your not interested. Give her a way out if she wants it.

Besides all of this, if our sick of the situation anyways, why not just end it without even mentioning the profile?

Thats my rational side talking. MOst likely if I was in your shoe's my girlfriend would be taking a nice drop down our steps as I threw her ass out.

 

[2words]

well, this picture of her isnt very old at all. just a few weeks ago. do you think its crappy of her even if were not getting along to post a profile? i do. i guess i could just put one up too and maybe she will find it maybe she wont????

 

[chuyler1]

Just remember, if you do anything...she will pull the 'invasion of privacy' card on you and there is no turning back. She will be convinced that you were snooping around in the browser cache because you don't trust her. Granted you have a reason not to trust her but once you say anything, she will also have a reason not to trust you.

EIther tell her you know and immediately dump her, or keep it a secret and wait for her to dump you or decide that you are the only one for her.

 

[ChiMSP]

You should sleep with the dirtiest ***** you could find.(upbum) (butthump)

 

[2003blkmp5]

Here is the real issue. Do you want to stay with her? if you really want to stay with her just confront her about it. if you really think to yourself that you dont want to stay with her, at least this gives you some good firepower durring the breakup!!!

 

[ChiMSP]

Do what you have to do to get your answers... hide, sneak, steal, sniff dirty draws, whatever. I think making up a fake profile would be intresting. Set up a meeting and HELLO! Justice.

 

[cbcbd]

Even if you are not looking to marry this girl right now you still have to act in an adult responsible way as if you were going to marry her. If you act like an idiot now you'll take the easy street and learn nothing from this.

Confront her about it. Not in an attacking way but a caring concerned way. See how she responds and then go from there.
If she gets very defensive and just wants to push you away there isn't much you can do about it unless she stops doing that and gets real.
If she opens up and tells you how she feels then there is hope for working things out.

Good luck
Doug

 

[Mr. Win]

well, this picture of her isnt very old at all. just a few weeks ago. do you think its crappy of her even if were not getting along to post a profile? i do. i guess i could just put one up too and maybe she will find it maybe she wont????

make one... find her. Talk to her, then meet her for dinner with flowers that say its over. Then walk out and dont look back.

 

[SPEEDHERO]

Yes set up a meeting with dinner and flowers and have your friend video the whole thing as you dump her ass and zoom in to her sad sad face...classic! haha

and don't forget to post it

 

[2words]

Yes set up a meeting with dinner and flowers and have your friend video the whole thing as you dump her ass and zoom in to her sad sad face...classic! haha

and don't forget to post it

you guys are crazy!

 

[Mr. Win]

i wouldnt video it... id just do it because she would have no defense. why are you snopping around and all that blah wouldnt mean s*** because well she went and met someone which means shes was going to cheat on you. The flowers are just a nice **** you and smile.

 

[2words]

i wouldnt video it... id just do it because she would have no defense. why are you snopping around and all that blah wouldnt mean s*** because well she went and met someone which means shes was going to cheat on you. The flowers are just a nice **** you and smile.

UM i wasnt snooping around, she was online and i just came upbehind her to see what she was doing. like hey whats up. it was in her email which she was checking. THEN i started to investigate! i think i had a reason to after that. she closed the e-mail down like 3 seconds after i was behind her.

 

[Mr. Win]

you went into her personal email? thats snooping my friend. Only thing you can do now to save face is to catch her in the act. I dont like when my GF read over my shoulder even if its biz stuff. If your going to wait to catch her in the act its not even worth youll just stress yourself out.