Before reading my post, understand this - I'm an immature 18 year old male who owns a 2007 Civic SI sedan. WIth that said..
Go post this same question on
www.8thcivic.com and see what results you get? Posting this question here was a bad idea, the replies are SO biased it's not even funny.
To start with.. I don't 'dislike' the MS3. In fact, I was all set to get a regular mazda3 because I think that car is amazing for the price, but my parents let me get an SI so I took that instead. The MS3 came up, but it was decided by me and my parents that an 18 year old shouldn't be driving a 263 horsepower car. So it can be concluded that I do in fact LOVE the MS3.
If you just want power and IMO a more refined interior, get the MS3. I'm dissappointed that Honda is ~65 HP and ~100 lbs of torque down on the MS3 for such a small gap in price. BUT.. the new SIs are equipped with the K20Z3 motor. NO ONE argue me on this.. the K series are without a doubt the best 4 banger motors EVER made. With 0 engine management (no tuning), NOTHING (internals) besides a turbo kit, bigger fuel injectors, uprgraded fuel rail and a few other miniscule things (again, motor NOT built up) a company has this motor running at 500+ WHP, and it most likely would of made 600 WHP but the clutch began slipping. This car has also been tracked extensively and is running high 11s, no engine failures yet.
Is the MS3 more fun to drive? Yes.. and no. I test drove the MS3 and the thing is quite a ******* ride. Pinning the gas and just 'going' is amazing. However, the SI is more fun for me. You and I are different people, so it might not be the same. At about 5800 RPMs the SI's motor switches into Vtec, and the motor grows substantially louder, and you begin moving. It's such an amazing feeling.. all the way to 8200 RPMs. I have the Hondata reflash on my and I now take it up to about 8500 (cutoff at 8600). Seeing the LED shift light blinking in your face is something you never want to stop inducing.
The SI has great handling, so does the MS3. I won't even touch on that. The brakes in the SI could be better, the MS3 has great brakes.
Now, the exterior.. I HATE the hatch. If the MS3 had been made a sedan as well, then I would have stopped at nothing to get it. I just think it's ugly. I love the way my sedan looks, however. And it will look incredible once I get the mugen lip kit on it + mugen spoiler. The interiors are love / hate. I love the SI interior. I think the dash is quite awesome. THe MS3 has probably the greatest interior of an economy car, so I'm not going to bash on that one..
Now one more time.. back to power. If all you want is a powerful motor, you're wasting your time with the MS3 and the SI. Get an ion redline / cobalt SS for ~17k brand new. They put down about ~225 WHP. They can easily achieve ~280+ WHP for under 20k. I beleive the MS3 dynos at ~230 ish. I know some dyno at ~250, but that's maybe on the first run and in ideal conditions since this thing is subject to wicked heat soak. In my SI, I dynoed at 189.x WHP. Since then I've added an Injen CAI, Buddy Club race header, Apexi N1 exhaust, Hondata reflash, TB spacer, Hondata IMG, and the NST pully set. I now SHOULD dyno (based on what others have gotten, haven't dynoed mine yet) be around 220-225ish WHP.
There is a black MS3 that I've seen a few times. A few days ago I ran into it on the highway, and from 55-80 MPH, it was pretty even. After shifting into 4th I started pulling on him super gently. I'm not sure if he started letting off, or didn't know to shift before redline, but when I started pulling, I backed off and he sped off. Considering I got my SI for a steal (19,700 + 1400 for a trade-in worth less than $500 most likely), I would say what I have put into the car hasn't been too bad..
Anyways, test drive both and decide. If you want a fun ride, you can't go wrong either way.