Well, it's off to court I go...

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Well it seems that my Ex pulled a fast one, and had me served with papers....get this....tonight at around 5 PM (after everything clerical is closed), and the night before the court date. How about that s***. basically this is her underhanded ploy to get our daughter away from me. We'll see what' up with this.
 
Mu ex tried that with me Linux, the judge threw it out of court and told her she was nutso. Just be calm cool collected, the judge will see for themselves when you walk in bro.
 
You're in my prayers...

Good luck Bruh!!!
 
Good luck dude..

I hope I never have to go through divorce...both my parents were married twice...it better not be a genetic thing...lol
 
Well, she got the baby. (sad2) Even though I have been a responsible parent, turns out that I had no establishment of paternity. That's all they cared about this morning. Now to figure out what to do.

If you have ANY advice for me. Do not post it here! Rather PM me for my number, e-mail me. My e-mail address is always in my sig.:'(
 
I honestly cant understand how she could get the baby after all of thepsycho s*** she has done..Maybe im just a young kid who doesnt understand the law, but to me, this isnt a matter of law..Sometimes, I feel the people in charge need to step back and make things extremely simple instead of extremely difficult..for example..

We have a seperated wife and father of a little girl. Father has good record and is quite dependable. Mother reported of stalking and vandalism at multiple occasions...

what is so hard?
 
I hate to be an asshole Patrick, but what in the hell did you think was going to happen? You didn't see this coming? Have you even noticed what she has done to me in the past year? Have you even noticed any of that? Maybe you need to get your priorities straight and stop focusing and spending so much on your car. I'm only saying this because I am your friend and I think you need a major awakening. She is crazy and you have just ignored that for the past year. She has caused me to have to move to another city and to sell my car. And you acted like it was in no way your fault also. Guess what, it was partly your fault all this happened because she was your girlfriend and you did nothing about it. She called my grandmother in Alabama and told her me and my wife was dead. She emailed the president of the company I work for over 100 times with porn photos from a Yahoo email account she made in my name. She vandalized my car 5 times, Jessie's car once, and maybe even Trey's car. And you did nothing about it. I can tell you that if I were in your shoes and she did this to my friends car's, I would have so0ld my car and stopped spending money so I could afford a private investigator and a lawyer to get my child away from her.

SHE EVEN THREATENED TO KILL YOUR CHILD AND BLAME IT ON YOU!

I'm sorry, but you should have seen this coming a long time ago. What is happening right now is because you did not have your priorities straight and you ignored what was happening. Good luck though, you will definetely need it.
 
Sorry Lynux

Man Im sorry to hear that man, I kinda know how you feel. A similar thing happened to me when I got back from Japan, I hated her for it! Time heals wounds man, but dont give up! Take it from an old salty Marine. Good luck man, If you ever need anything let me know.
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I hate to be an asshole Patrick, but what in the hell did you think was going to happen? You didn't see this coming? Have you even noticed what she has done to me in the past year? Have you even noticed any of that? Maybe you need to get your priorities straight and stop focusing and spending so much on your car. I'm only saying this because I am your friend and I think you need a major awakening. She is crazy and you have just ignored that for the past year. She has caused me to have to move to another city and to sell my car. And you acted like it was in no way your fault also. Guess what, it was partly your fault all this happened because she was your girlfriend and you did nothing about it. She called my grandmother in Alabama and told her me and my wife was dead. She emailed the president of the company I work for over 100 times with porn photos from a Yahoo email account she made in my name. She vandalized my car 5 times, Jessie's car once, and maybe even Trey's car. And you did nothing about it. I can tell you that if I were in your shoes and she did this to my friends car's, I would have so0ld my car and stopped spending money so I could afford a private investigator and a lawyer to get my child away from her.

SHE EVEN THREATENED TO KILL YOUR CHILD AND BLAME IT ON YOU!

I'm sorry, but you should have seen this coming a long time ago. What is happening right now is because you did not have your priorities straight and you ignored what was happening. Good luck though, you will definetely need it.

Let's get one thing straight,

This incident is different from all of those. This has nothing to do with those, and that stuff is being dealt with seprately. The issue today was because we had a child out of wedlock, and I have no parental rights. Now this is by no means permanent at all. To say I have done nothing at all is total bulls***. Sure she did all that s***, but I don't hold her phucking puppet strings! I'm sorry that she is such a nutcase, but I don't control that, so don't blame me for that s***! Everytime she has done something, I have went out of my way to help solve the s***, but as you know the damn justice system can and does suck sometimes. All we can do is leagally stop the s***. Sure I have focused a lot on my car, and when that s*** happened last month with her ******* up my dad's truck the day I went to Houston to pick up my engine, that changed. This s*** I do here, is just a diversion when I'm not dealing with that bulls***. To call me out like this wasn't cool at all.

Now that all that is said, you are right in some aspects of what you said.
 
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Big ben You should have Pm'd linex on this ,as for you linex ,I dont know American law but one would think that a blood test would confirm the paternity of your daughter . With this you should be able to ask for your parental rights .
Yes I agree that this is a seperate issue ,Personally I would find a lawyer to see what exactly your rights are as the father ,and see how you go about getting her back
I wish you all the luck in the world , Things will work out they always do
 
Linux

That sucks man. The courts never take the side of the men. Always the women. I have frat brother in a similar situ. The baby's mother & grandmother have both at one time or another (probably still are) have had to take medication for mental issues. From what I have been told. AND THE COURTS STILL GAVE HER CUSTODY!!! :wtf:

I'm not saying give up. Oh hell no, don't give up. I don't know if there is anything I can do, but let me know if I can help. Again, you're in my prayers...

Pray

Until

Something

Happens...

Keep on PUSHing!!!
 
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Sorry to hear about this dude. If there was something to offer to help I would, but I will keep hoping for you and your daughter to be together again soon.
 
Yeah I should have pm'ed you all that, but I don't think any of it was off target at all. I'm sorry for posting that, but hey, someone needs to tell you. If I were doing the same thing I would want one of my friends to wake me up too. I didn't get your message on my phone until last night though, I would have went with you to court to help explain how crazy she is. You should have called my work number. Anyway, like I said, good luck. By the way, what did she do to your dad's truck?
 
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Yeah I should have pm'ed you all that, but I don't think any of it was off target at all. I'm sorry for posting that, but hey, someone needs to tell you. If I were doing the same thing I would want one of my friends to wake me up too. I didn't get your message on my phone until last night though, I would have went with you to court to help explain how crazy she is. You should have called my work number. Anyway, like I said, good luck. By the way, what did she do to your dad's truck?

Ben,

Thanks for what you are trying to do. It's all good. About what she did to my dad's truck, here are some photos of the $1k damage:

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big_ben said:
I hate to be an asshole Patrick, but what in the hell did you think was going to happen? You didn't see this coming? Have you even noticed what she has done to me in the past year? Have you even noticed any of that? Maybe you need to get your priorities straight and stop focusing and spending so much on your car. I'm only saying this because I am your friend and I think you need a major awakening. She is crazy and you have just ignored that for the past year. She has caused me to have to move to another city and to sell my car. And you acted like it was in no way your fault also. Guess what, it was partly your fault all this happened because she was your girlfriend and you did nothing about it. She called my grandmother in Alabama and told her me and my wife was dead. She emailed the president of the company I work for over 100 times with porn photos from a Yahoo email account she made in my name. She vandalized my car 5 times, Jessie's car once, and maybe even Trey's car. And you did nothing about it. I can tell you that if I were in your shoes and she did this to my friends car's, I would have so0ld my car and stopped spending money so I could afford a private investigator and a lawyer to get my child away from her.

SHE EVEN THREATENED TO KILL YOUR CHILD AND BLAME IT ON YOU!

I'm sorry, but you should have seen this coming a long time ago. What is happening right now is because you did not have your priorities straight and you ignored what was happening. Good luck though, you will definetely need it.
not cool man:(
keep s*** private next time
 
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