Well, I am not quite sure even where to start this post. Matt, I am disappointed that you no longer want to remain in a "leadership" position in the club, but I understand it. If you want to step down, then I agree that it is the right decision.
The definition of club from Webster's Dictionary is "an association of persons for some common object usually jointly supported and meeting periodically; also : a group identified by some common characteristic". The definition of group is "a number of individuals assembled together or having some unifying relationship ". Honestly I don't see a difference. So, we are talking apples and apples here.
If people are upset that we call ourselves a club and not a group, then by all means I think we should be a group. (fight) And for those that are complaining about not having regular meets, START SOME. You can't possibly rely on other people to provide your entertainment only to complain about the quality. If there's something you want to do with the "group", or an idea you have, POST IT. It's summer time, people have other s*** to do. This "group" is not the LIFE of everyone in it. I know I certainly have other priorities. That doesn't mean that MEC and the people in it aren't important to me, it just means that I have other aspects of my social life.