OK I feel better now. I measured the butterfly on the stock TB and it is 55mm. The stock TB tapers/steps in, whereas the AutoEXE is a straight bore. Then I drove the car around

It feels significantly stronger now with the big TB, and the Corksport exhaust. Smooth power throughout the revs. Before there was a noticable jump at about 4000 rpms- and then a step down as it got toward redline (maybe around 5750). Its much smoother and feels stronger. I wish I had some dyno numbers to compare. I'll start looking for a dyno in town to see where I'm at.
The exhaust was not as much weightloss as Corksport said- they claim 20#s less. But I think that is due to the 2000 ES not having the second cat. My exhuast was stock pipes, with the Racing Beat (MP3) muffler. The new one (corksport power series) is much larger diameter, and weighs about 5 pounds less.
Also got a light Oddessy battery (13#), that was a 20# reduction. I've got a divisional next week, so I'll definately be putting it on the scales to weigh in after the latest round of mods.
With the AC, exhuast, battery, and wheels I was hoping to cut out 100 lbs, but its looking like it might be only 70 or 75.
Another upgrade was the brake pads. I forgot that my parents put some generic pads on it when they were using the car. I swapped em out with some Hawk HPS, bled all the brakes, and that is starting to feel much better.