Just to toss my hat into the ring here, FIrst off, jd, I don't know if you're aware, but Servo and 1st are both VERY knowledgeable ppl to talk to on the matter. Stereo shop sales guys are NOT. a good friend of mine works at a local shop, and he has a wonderful elitest mentality from it, but really doesn't know much. If you want to talk to the RIGHT guy at a shop, talk to an installer. They're the ones who know what's REALLY up.
Now, I'm not as vastly knowledgeable as those guys, but asfor my $.02, avoid what the salesman's pushing, and do what was reccomended earlier in this thread. Use your factory amp to power your FRONT speakers. and those alone. Get a decent set of front speakers and forget about the rear. Leave them stock, or upgrade if you need to, but don't worry about putting any more power to them. In the door is a good place because they won't be able to throw much noise at the back of your head. If you have nice rear speakers and power going to them, it just muddies up your sound 'cause your imaging is thrown out of whack, and instead of hearing one source, your mind gets confused with a barrage of multidirectional soundwaves all hitting you at different times. I know according to my sig, I'm running a 4ch amp and I've got infinity's in my rears, but I've actually pulled the inifinity's and went back to stock, and run them from the deck at the moment. I MAY get some 5-1/4" midrange's (no tweeter) for fill-sound only that'll still be powered with my amp's gains WAY down.
For your sub, there's good, solid, known performers out there. Sure other stuff'll work, but alot of time you can end up spending alot of $ for crap. JL is about as solid and well-known as you can get. I used to awlays be a fan of kicker, but I now have an Elemental Designs and I've been Blown away by how incredible it sounds. servo put it right, you can have it sound where you really don't notice it's there until you turn it off and it's gone. Then of course if you turn it up, you can bump to your heart's content. I've got the 12a with about 1000w going to it, and it's way more than I'd ever bargained for, but thsoe K's are pretty awesome, and at that price?? can't go wrong. Let the shop build your box, though if it's what it sounds (in your wheelwell) it should fit nicely and take up little room. I'd love to get this done actually. As for type. a medium-small sealed is very well suited to SQ applications. Just go with the specs of the sub. if you don't care toomuch about the room, just make a simple plywood one like what ED reccomends. it doens't take a masters in carpentry to do, and you'll have the satisfaction of building it yourself.
Most of all, though. Listen to these guys, they SERIOUSLY know their stuff. I realize that salesguys are very convincing, but they're there to turn a $. These guys are here, on their free time because they enjoy car audio.