You guys are taking what I'd said to extremes. I sometimes forget that the young, especially young males see the world in black and white... all or nothing.
I never said or even suggested that there would be immediate and catastrophic failure, just that additional stress w/o good reason (e.g. racing) is silly. And as you've finally seem to realize or admit, Chef, additional wear on tires and other components will surly be the result. But the further away from spec you get, the faster the wear. That only makes sense.
And sure racers have to compromise between being competitive and additional wear and tear on parts. Between a car with more grip (or less) and it being a challenge to handle at the wheel. But racers know that, and accept it as part of racing. Besides, an auto-x run lasts 30 secs. If you have 5 runs at the event a total of 2.5mins total.
One of the most highly modified auto-xer's on this site is Tigermack. I'm sure we all know him. He runs extreme wheels and rubber. His car is lowered and sway barred into the weeds, but he does do repairs and upgrades. He has tried various things to see what works on the track and on the street. Besides, I'm not even sure he drives that car on the roads anymore? I'm pretty sure he trailers it to the events these days.
As for examples of failure due to extreme mods in wheels ans suspension, yes I have a few. So what? You wouldn't know them, and I wouldn't even know where they are today to verify my claims. That's not the point I'm making here.
You want examples? OK. When I was a young and stupid teenager, and growing up just north of you now Chef (ABE area,) wide negative offset wheels and jacking up the back of a car was the thing to do. Oh , and blacked out hoods too. That was important. Make it look like a dragster. Make it "look" fast.
VW's and Vans were often included. In fact VW's were VERY popular. Jack up a VW, put on wide neg offset wheels and wide tires, and these guys were replacing rear wheel bearings every 6 months. The handling suffered because now the car has positive camber in the rear and the weight distribution is biased more towards the front than was intended. Positive caster in the front was also a result. In the name of looking cool and fast, bump steer and bad handling was the order of the day.
Those that couldn't afford wheels used spacers to make their wheels look wider. Sometimes the spacers, or studs broke off, probably due to improper installation or poor quality spacers, but I did know a guy that kept losing lug nuts because the wheels studs would break off. He had a "hot" VW and one time I remember him having only 3 lugs (out of 5, 4 to 5 lug conversion) left on one rear wheel.
Another guy I knew in passing, a friend of a friend actually, had a Camaro 302. He had really wide wheels on the rear, probably 10"... deep offset too and he too had to replace rear bearings twice in the short time I knew him. IIRC the car was a '68 or '69 and this was around 1973, so it wasn't that old, nor did it have a lot of miles on it.
So I ask you all again, why do harm to your DD (and your wallet) for the sake of coolness? Do you think the girls will swoon over them?
Sure, I have done appearance only mods to every car I've ever owned, including my 3. But I avoid doing more harm than good when considering them. I have learned over time, and I'm simply trying to pass what I have learned on so that you guys don't have to make the mistakes I've made, or avoided making through the mistakes I saw others making.
Is it really that important, or would it make more sense to improve the performance AND appearance at the same time?
The OP now seems to think so.
There is a lot more to this than simply buying a set of wheels spacers, wider wheels and installing them. Everything you do affects everything else. It's always a compromise, and it always will be.When modding our vehicles as car guys will do, we have to weigh the pros and cons of every action, every change. For every change done to the chassis/rolling stock of a vehicle many other things can be, and usually are affected.
I don't know what more I can say to convince you. I just know that I'm tired, so believe me or not. Think about what I've said or don't.
You know I wasn't always the old fart you see before you today. I do have a history, and that history includes many, many cars, and many, many mods too.
Take it or leave it.