i got more news today... control arm won't be in till monday, and turns out the MB wheels are discontinued in that size so either way I had to buy new winter tires... they are going to try and fix the wheel, but if they can't then I'm SOL. Either way, those will be sold a.s.a.p., now I have to pay all this s*** off before I can look for another set of 17s for my contis.
As for the coilover, it seems it didn't suffer form this impact, it's been making some noise for a while. Talked to BC North America and it looks like I just have to tighten a bolt to fix that, and they might send me a replacement part to fix something else even though they're out of warranty.