Damn.. that sucks that you messed you your engine like that.. If it makes you feel any better, my friend just did the exact same thing in his red RSX type-S... he drove around in it for a couple days (told him not to), and BAM! his engine was gone. So he went and bought a full out, JDM Type-R engine.. put him back $6500.. should be fast as hell though... maybe you'll see him around SF. Hes a funny looking somoan guy in a red RSX with a carbon fiber hood. Anyways, you're pics are sweet, remind me of home.. can't wait to get back haha. Good luck with your engine.
Sorry about your grand mother; I hope the trip to Hong Kong will be cool, and everything works out.