MzMazdaProtege5
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So, my son father has decided after 25 months to finally come out and be apart of his son's life. He denied him untill he was 14 months of age. He was never there through my pregnancy either. When I filed for Child Support he denied him of it because he said he wasent his son. After the DNA test came back 99% he is the father he started to pay Child Support. After the second day he told me he never wanted to have children. So, I kinda decided to let him call since it seems my son wasent much importance to him. Then two days ago he called and told me that him and his parents are coming out for a weekend to finally meet him. I have no problem with it. But he wants to spend 24/7 with him. I told him I could give him 5-6 hours a day but I have personal things I need to do too. Plus they would be supervised since he told me through out 25 months he was going to take him from me. I get a call this morning at 6am stating he isnt coming and basically he is going to file custody. Oh and plus he quit his job so for this month I wont be getting Child Support. He told me he changed jobs to Union Pacific. Which is the railroad company. Which is fine. But now all of a sudden my son has meaning in his life. The only reason is because if he spends time with him he has to pay less money.
If I was in his shoes I would understand that the child might get overwhelmed by three new people. I would also understand that since its the first time in two years that the person would want to be there at all times. Blah! Im soo freaking fusterated it isnt funny. I'm not denying him any right to see his son but for the first time I want to be there at all times which is understandable. People really seriously irritate me! BLAH!!
If I was in his shoes I would understand that the child might get overwhelmed by three new people. I would also understand that since its the first time in two years that the person would want to be there at all times. Blah! Im soo freaking fusterated it isnt funny. I'm not denying him any right to see his son but for the first time I want to be there at all times which is understandable. People really seriously irritate me! BLAH!!
