Yes, I think the diagram is correct, but basically the way it works is C and D are always powered: A, B, E, and F are grounded to actuate. But you are going through a sequence, so its like: B, A, F, E, B, A, F, E, B, A F, E etc, to go one direction and then it would be E F A B E F A B E F A B to go the other, but there are 24 possible sequences and I don't know which is right.
Oddly, I've found a couple really good deals on the Canadian EGR valve (new), so I'm just going to buy one. I presume you can just plug the hoses and not worry about them, or hook it up as shown.
I do like your SST.