Ok...I never wanted to use one of those serives because I would feel like a chump, but my buddy who uses Match.com said to me, "If you meet a hot girl, who gives a s*** where you met her?" So then I joined Eharmony (you can get discounts everywhere, its mad cheap) and I have met 2 great girls, one of which a dated for about 9 months before she moved to Boston. It was cool, it's not a scam, and it matches you based on this big ass test you take. Both girls I met were @ 8s (hotness rating) who were just too busy, and sick of trial and error dating. Now Kyle will come along and rip on me.......waiting.......hahah GL man!