you DO NOT want the D4 setup at all, check the voice coil configuration you want to run the + of one voice coil to the - of the other. You shoudl then run your amp outputs to the remaining spots.
Anywhich way, dimming is realistically a part of life with upgraded stereo. Would you rather things sound good and deal with a bit of dimming when you've got things cranked up, or make a large compromise in sound just so your lights don't dim? heck they likely dim when you roll your windows up and down, yes? It's not a sign of electrical problems, it takes a very slight difference in voltage to make a visible difference in light intensity.
Anywhich way, dimming is realistically a part of life with upgraded stereo. Would you rather things sound good and deal with a bit of dimming when you've got things cranked up, or make a large compromise in sound just so your lights don't dim? heck they likely dim when you roll your windows up and down, yes? It's not a sign of electrical problems, it takes a very slight difference in voltage to make a visible difference in light intensity.