My leather is soft because I condition it and keep it maintained.
The Bose stereo is definitely better than the standard one, but it's not like audiophile-quality.
Auto lights and wipers can break? Umm, sure, I guess.....anything can break. Your car's headlamp bulbs will burn out, my HIDs will go a long time before needing replacement, and I also get about 3x the light output of your halogen bulbs.
I also get a TPMS, which is kinda nifty in case I get a slow leak or something like that.
I think it's a bit harsh and a gross oversimplification to say that "the only difference is HIDs". (screwy)
The Sport version is still a good car, but given the choice, and the relatively small price difference, why not get a few extras?