20 psi is not the problem. It's 20 psi on an MBC. Bypassing the safeguards in the ECU and not modulating boost with load is what got him in trouble. MBC at above stock boost levels (hell, even AT stock boost levels) is asking for trouble. The turbo's efficiency range will handle 20 psi at low rpm, but the block (especially connecting rods) does not play well with boost that high at low rpm. Simply too much load on the reciprocating mass and way too much torque. And any boost level above 16-17 psi when cranking past 6k rpm will also kill this engine, because the turbo is driven past its efficiency and turns into a heat furnace.
That's why a tune is needed to run 20 psi and even then it had damn well better taper that boost back down to the 16 psi range when the tach needle starts moving past 5,800, and why load cut is built into the stock ECU and any responsible tune when unsafe conditions arise.
OP: Swap in the other engine and GET RID OF THE MBC. If you are going to run high boost, keep it below 18 or get a tune that will protect you.
Then enjoy your car. MBC + 20 psi = fail.