Ok so here is my question. Would you date a girl that dance in a gentlemens club. This isn't one of those dives or hole in the walls this is one of those places with a dress code. Just curious as to what other think on this subject. I mean 90% of guys I know want to date a stripped but once they do or are they can't handle it. I am one of that other 10% though that it doesn't bother me one bit. As a matter of fact I have dated 4 girls that were dancers. 2 of my good friends(used to be neighbors) work in a club. She dances and he is the DJ. They are probably the coolest and nicest people I have ever met. They have introduced me to several but 2 were back in my college days and they were STRIPPERS. BTW I do beleive there is a difference between a stripper and a exotic dancer. I know it sounds stupid to say but there is. It is like this, A stripper is the girl that has no plans other than to strip for the rest of her life and spend the money she gets as soon as she gets it. These are found every one, not just in the low rent places. Exotic dancers are girls who have either chosen it as a career and are actually smart about their money and not strung out or messed up all the time. Most of these girls are dancing in order to further their life like paying for school.
My mom wasn't too thrilled with a couple of the girls she met that I dated because they were the stripper mentality alll the time and even dressed like it out of the club. But one girl she actually really liked and was shocked when she found out that she danced.
As far as them dancing it doesn't bother me because I look at it as just a job. actually a job where you make lots of money. So an old pervert grabs her but while she is dancing for him. That can happen anywhere. but how many of those places are the guys paying for it. Another ex of mine worked at a golf course and got grabbed and hit on more than the dancer I dated.
Ok so now here is where I have a little problem. I just met this girl. We'll call her Missy. Well she is a dancer at the same club that my friends work at. this club is The Mens Club in Charlotte. Really high class place(actually a 5 star restraunt) Anyway she has known them for like 2 years. Well the other night I ate dinner there with my friends and thats when I met Missy. Appearence aside for a moment she actually has a great personalty. Actually haven't met a girl in a long time that made me laugh or kept me interested is what she was saying for quite a long time. also it was nice to finally have a actual intelectual conversation with a girl. OK OK stop laughing. I know you guys are thinking I am full of s*** right about now cause I am telling you that I was in a strip club witha beautiful dancer talking politics and philosophy but hey I was. Great smile, great laugh and we have alot in common. Well we all ate and talked for a few hours. She hadn't danced for me at that point. And needless to say there was flirting going on from both sides. Well after some teasing and instigating from our friends she gives me a dance. Lets just say she got in trouble from her manager(NC Law says you not supposed to touch meaning no real" LAP DANCE") Well here is the thing. She ended up dancing for me several more times and we talked until about 2 in the morning when they closed. Stepping completely out of character for me I asked if she would like to get together outside of the club. She said she would love to but that she is with someone. Well here is the problem(sorry it took so long to explain) I will NOT under any circumstance move in on or cheat with a girl who is involved in a relationship. I have never cheated on a girl and only look for the same. Problem is that I really like this girl and from what I gathered from her and from my friends is that she really likes me. So my problem is what do I do? Do I say screw my rules and try and talk to her or stick to my guns and just be friends and maybe something will happen in the future(BTW this is what I always end up doing) After my last relationship I was pretty messed up and as a result havent dated in a year so I am a little uneasy getting back into it. Especially under these circumstances
OH before you ask I waited till the end to tell you she is an absolute Knockout. Kinda reminds me a little of Shania Twain except with more red in her hair. And yes she does have breast implants so they are big. (for anyone that knows me they know I am not a boob guy though...so not really important.) About 5'10" so my same height. 115lbs. Brownish hazel eyes. Man I could go on all day describing her but I won't.
Sorry this was so long but I just can't stop thinking of this girl.
My mom wasn't too thrilled with a couple of the girls she met that I dated because they were the stripper mentality alll the time and even dressed like it out of the club. But one girl she actually really liked and was shocked when she found out that she danced.
As far as them dancing it doesn't bother me because I look at it as just a job. actually a job where you make lots of money. So an old pervert grabs her but while she is dancing for him. That can happen anywhere. but how many of those places are the guys paying for it. Another ex of mine worked at a golf course and got grabbed and hit on more than the dancer I dated.
Ok so now here is where I have a little problem. I just met this girl. We'll call her Missy. Well she is a dancer at the same club that my friends work at. this club is The Mens Club in Charlotte. Really high class place(actually a 5 star restraunt) Anyway she has known them for like 2 years. Well the other night I ate dinner there with my friends and thats when I met Missy. Appearence aside for a moment she actually has a great personalty. Actually haven't met a girl in a long time that made me laugh or kept me interested is what she was saying for quite a long time. also it was nice to finally have a actual intelectual conversation with a girl. OK OK stop laughing. I know you guys are thinking I am full of s*** right about now cause I am telling you that I was in a strip club witha beautiful dancer talking politics and philosophy but hey I was. Great smile, great laugh and we have alot in common. Well we all ate and talked for a few hours. She hadn't danced for me at that point. And needless to say there was flirting going on from both sides. Well after some teasing and instigating from our friends she gives me a dance. Lets just say she got in trouble from her manager(NC Law says you not supposed to touch meaning no real" LAP DANCE") Well here is the thing. She ended up dancing for me several more times and we talked until about 2 in the morning when they closed. Stepping completely out of character for me I asked if she would like to get together outside of the club. She said she would love to but that she is with someone. Well here is the problem(sorry it took so long to explain) I will NOT under any circumstance move in on or cheat with a girl who is involved in a relationship. I have never cheated on a girl and only look for the same. Problem is that I really like this girl and from what I gathered from her and from my friends is that she really likes me. So my problem is what do I do? Do I say screw my rules and try and talk to her or stick to my guns and just be friends and maybe something will happen in the future(BTW this is what I always end up doing) After my last relationship I was pretty messed up and as a result havent dated in a year so I am a little uneasy getting back into it. Especially under these circumstances
OH before you ask I waited till the end to tell you she is an absolute Knockout. Kinda reminds me a little of Shania Twain except with more red in her hair. And yes she does have breast implants so they are big. (for anyone that knows me they know I am not a boob guy though...so not really important.) About 5'10" so my same height. 115lbs. Brownish hazel eyes. Man I could go on all day describing her but I won't.
Sorry this was so long but I just can't stop thinking of this girl.
) is sitting right next to you and don't try anything funny. Me i'm too jealous to date a stripper, those boobies are for me, and me only (referring to my g/f and not the stripper of coarse) but go out and have some fun, what could be the harm?
