That said, after hitting the range with the wife, I think she needs something a bit smaller and more manageable for her which means ambidextrous. I came across the Walther PK380 in my saerching.
Looks like a nice peice for a person with smaller hands looking for an OK round with out a large amount of recoil like a 9mm or .40. I know for alot of people the 9mm doesnt seem like alot but its simply too much for some, especially when the grip is just to long/wide for a small hand.
Also I was looking at PPks and the sig counter parts but thesy seem to have just as much kick as the 9mm.
Thoughts?
The Walther PK380 is a brand new gun. I haven't had a chance to shoot one, just held one in a store. It's pretty cool, very similar in size to the Walther P22 (which fires the .22 LR round which is not recommended for self defense).
There are much smaller .380 ACP pistols like the Walther PPK and Sig you mentioned (the Sig was probably the P238?). Others include the Ruger LCP, Kel-Tec P-3AT, Micro Desert Eagle, and Kahr P380 -- all similar in size and weight. But the tiny size and weight of these guns definitely affect felt recoil. With all other things equal, a smaller gun (with a shorter barrel) will have more felt recoil than a larger gun (with a longer barrel), and a lighter gun will have more felt recoil than a heavier gun. It's not the
actual amount of recoil that is more, it is the
felt (or
perceived) recoil that is more. A longer barrel and a heavier gun will absorb more recoil forces. So yes, an ultracompact .380 ACP 'pocket pistol' can have more perceived recoil than a larger 9mm pistol.
And the .380 ACP round isn't as 'anemic' as it used to be. Modern hollowpoint bullet designs have decreased the gap between .380 ACP and 9mm. 9mm is still of course more powerful with more stopping power, but the difference isn't as much as it was in the past. Ultracompact .380 ACP's are a hot commodity right now, which should tell you that .380 ACP is an acceptable self-defense caliber nowadays. I wouldn't go any smaller than that though, unless there are other factors at play that prevent your wife from going with .380 ACP or larger (severe arthritis, carpal tunnel syndrome, etc. that makes recoil unbearable).
.380 ACP is actually a 9mm caliber. It's the same diameter as a 9mm Parabellum (the standard 9mm round), just shorter. This means less room for gunpowder, so a smaller explosion with less force.
9mm Parabellum is 9mm wide and 19mm long.
.380 ACP is 9mm wide and 17mm long.