Appears to be only on European models
Wrong. Also standard on Aussie models.
It takes a little getting used to, but it doesnt bother me at all on my Akera.
As others have mentioned there are a variety of factors that will affect whether it activates or not.
Eg on hot days when you have the AC turned on, stop at traffic lights and its common for the iStop to turn the engine off, and then restart after only a short time. This is necessary for the AC compressor so it cools sufficiently.
Its pretty clever, for example if the iStop is activated and you move the steering wheel even a tiny bit, the engine will restart.
When the diesel is in regen mode, iStop is deactivated and indeed, one of the signs that its in regen mode is that the iStop light on the dash goes off.
Some people hate it, and you can turn it off, but it reverts to on when you turn the car off. Others like me dont have any problems with it and just allow it to do its thing.
I dont find anything at all dangreous in its operation with an auto. My ccurrent CX5 is auto, as was its predecessor that I had for 3 years.