Life sucks when the woman you love hates you!

LinuxRacr said:
I know, but that doesn't mean I don't love her. The car is just a vehicle...a thing... I can get another one. My daughter AND Sapril are my family (no matter how ****** up things are). I may love her, but that doesn't mean I will be getting back in a relationship with her! That just wouldn't be smart!


NO that would be a dumb ass move!!! Someone who continues to treat you bad, time after time, eventually takes something that is good and makes that good within turn bad. Not only does apply to you, you have to wonder how all this will affect your daughter.
 
you love her enough to forgive her and get closure from this relationship.. is what im guessing (what i may need to get soon, closure)
 
I would definately NOT get back into a relationship with her. I was in this situation a couple years back, I kicked her out of the house, then I left town. Leaving town for you may not be the best idea, especially since you have a daughter together. Luckily I didn't, (but she was trying to get pregnant so she could trap me). She needs to be medicated and you need to get yourself and your daughter out of her life. This is not healthy for anyone, especially your daughter. I wish you luck.

LinuxRacr said:
I know, but that doesn't mean I don't love her. The car is just a vehicle...a thing... I can get another one. My daughter AND Sapril are my family (no matter how ****** up things are). I may love her, but that doesn't mean I will be getting back in a relationship with her! That just wouldn't be smart!
 
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"Man Sorry to hear this dude"!!!! i feel your pain. (ThreadJack) If you were in the military right now, and NCSI (NAVY CRIME SCENE INVESTIGATION)was to have everything on record of what she has done!!!! She wouldn't be able to Speak or see your daughter right now, for a looonnggg time!!!! Good LucK!!!!
 
The latest text message exchange...

BLUE= ME!
Red=Her!


Hey, can we meet somewhere so I can visit Saella (our daughter)
Didn't I tell u to **** off and die?
No.
Don't speak to me ever again!
Just because you are upset, u don't have the right to keep my daughter from me.
I am not playing this game anymore where we talk when u want to?
How are we supposed to talk when everytime I come by, you try to do me harm?
u r the problem. U left her to go out with your friends so u lost ur chance 2 be with her.
That is BS! I had her all day (already), and then you come home after studying all day. I had to get away from your temper! (She still didn't know I moved out after she threatened to cut up my stuff! I left because she was fixing to start tripping again.)
Again **** off and die. Leave me alone
 
need counseling MUCH?

she sounds like my chinese cousin. Dude, asian girls can get really b****y alot and have serious temper problems.

My cousin waved a butcher knife at me under a locked door once. She was crazy.

-B
 
LinuxRacr said:
BLUE= ME!
Red=Her!


Hey, can we meet somewhere so I can visit Saella (our daughter)
Didn't I tell u to **** off and die?
No.
Don't speak to me ever again!
Just because you are upset, u don't have the right to keep my daughter from me.
I am not playing this game anymore where we talk when u want to?
How are we supposed to talk when everytime I come by, you try to do me harm?
u r the problem. U left her to go out with your friends so u lost ur chance 2 be with her.
That is BS! I had her all day (already), and then you come home after studying all day. I had to get away from your temper! (She still didn't know I moved out after she threatened to cut up my stuff! I left because she was fixing to start tripping again.)
Again **** off and die. Leave me alone
I think somebody needs a hug.
 
You need to get a lawyer and FAST. You are entitled to see that child and she should NOT take away your rights to do so. But if she knows she can get to you through your daughter, she will.
 
man, this situation sucks ass. your best bet would be to wait it out, get a lawyer, dont dig yourself into a hole or any legal trouble with her, and try to get some kind of a tempory court order custody of your daughter untill you can get all this s*** settled. it sounds to me like the girl has some issues that need to be adressed before she ends up doing somthing that she cant take back.
i have been in at your end of a relationship before, fortunately there were no kids involved. so i know a little of what you are feeling.
my advise to you is to stick to your guns and dont give up until the dust settles. you can make it through this with your strong faith and the love of your family. dont give up, and good luck!
God Bless you!
 
Damn dude this sucks!!! First off, she can't legally keep you from your child. Consult an attorney and go from there.

Second, you don't need to worry about your text messages. Your wireless provider has records of all messages and numbers called to and from your phone. A lawyer can get them for court if needed.

Third, I have a hood for ya. It's yellow, but it's a start.
 
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LinuxRacr said:
In my opinion, this is what happened:



Last night Sapril finishes the studying that she had been doing all day, and come home. I am waiting there with my daughter. She comes in , and still has no clue that I moved out. When she finds out that I moved out, she starts getting upset. Why? After all she wanted me to move out, threatened me if I didn't! We talk back and forth for about 5 minutes about how she needs to get help for anger management, and then I leave. All night she blows up my phone. This morning before 5 AM, I get a few calls from Sapril (she never just calls one time), asking me to pick up our daughter so she can go workout. I agree, and wake up and go over there. I get to the door, and and knock. She comes out, and I'm like where is our daughter. She points to our daughter's bedroom. There is some trash sitting ouside her door, and she starts to take it downstairs to pickup this morning. Something tells me to stay there and watch her. My car is parked in the firelane. She has the nerve to ask if that was my car. She knew that was my ******* car!!! When she asks me if she should kick my car for anger management. I'm like, no that would not be a good idea. I move for the stairs to go down them, because I knew what was next. She starts kicking the side of my car, and then the hood. The alarm goes off like crazy!` I run down, and she backs away. I tell here to stay the **** away from my car. She then goes over to the garbage, and picks up one of my old street glow neon tubes, ans starts hammering my car with it! :wtf: I had no choice but to get in my car, and ******* peel out. I should have pictures later, but I filed a police report IMMEDIATELY! I have a big-ass dent in the passenger-side door, and one on the hood. I also have some other marks on the doors as well from multiple kicks from her! Again, my point is proven why I moved out yesterday. She doesn't EVER have to wonder if we will be together again.
man when it gets to that point its way been time to go i feel you i just had a baby and my wife gets really angry alot but with no vilonce so if it every got even close she would go to anger m,angement
 
Patrick, I'm glad you finally moved out, but your daughter is not safe in that situation. You need to get her away from Sapril. No child should be raised with someone who is like that. Save every threatening message you get from Sapril, anything that shows how psychotic she is and try to get custody of your daughter. For your daughter's sake.
 
Well, I went and got an estimate yesterday for the damage that Sapril caused alone, and the total was..get this...

:: Drum roll ::

$2600! (boom03)

The guy told me that if I wanted to get an estimate for the hail damage that I sustained earlier this year, I would have to go to my insurance company directly for an estimate. He told me it would probably be another $3000. for the hail damage. My insurance company will surely put me in a high-risk catagory or cancel me. :mad:
 
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