OK, I lived with my Grandmother until she passed away when I was 23. She had adopted me after my mother passed away when I was 13. Basically, she took care of me in my younger years, so I returned the favor in her older years. Instead of paying her rent as i got older, I would run errands, do housework, take her to the Dr. and shopping, things like that. She would very rarely accept any money from me except for food. She wanted me to learn to save money and pay my own bills, etc. For awhile, I was giving her money, but was just putting it away for me........So, there are certain circumstances that neccessitate being "home", but mostly for the good of others.