61 to 87 INCH-pounds. Basically hand-tight with a 1/4" ratchet (with your hand as close to the ratchet as possible to deliver the least amount of torque). The service manual also says to start with the middle bolt and work your way around.
s***, forgot about the RTV! Provided he didn't remove the cover and was only tightening it down it should be ok. But OP, if you removed the valve cover, you need to add new grey RTV to the spots shown in the service manual or it might leak.
i assume you mean the "Cam Cover"? yeah, its only sealing against a rubber gasket, so it doesn't need much. 1/4" ratchet, or a 1/4" screw-driver with a socket end will be the right tool. make sure its not leaking, and it will be fine.
oh, and the torque specs are in the shop manual on page 01-10B-9and make sure you put dabs of silicone sealant in the correct spots, too. (see page 01-10B-13)
and yea thanks bro! when i bought my car it didnt come with a manual :/ and i heard that dealerships charge a ridiculous amount of money for them so i just got done downloading one i found on here, some pdf one. 2003 and 2002 p5's basically have the same manuals right?
yup, same one.