and here's the pics of the valve installed
the parts got colored so that you can tell where they are installed... "green" hose goes all the way to the top of the throttle body (IAC)... "light blue" hose goes to the coolant return pipe... the gay "purple" hose is the vent hose that runs all the way to the fuse box
and just to think the story ends here... I put everything back together, and the car started up fine... but after reving it a few times, the car ran like s***! WTF... I spent 30 mins checking for leaks and only found the cold pipe to the intercooler was leaking a tiny bit... I tightened the clamps more and fixed that, but it was still running bad.... I finally said **** it and took the plugs out and found #3 was fouled up.. I cleaned it and the engine ran great after that.... must be the induction cleaning I was doing right before I took the car apart that did that... either way I was pretty mad after spending all day messing with this that the car ran like this!!