While I will admit you bring up some valid points, I'm sticking by my summation, which is that fancy spark plugs do NOTHING for performance in an otherwise stock car, and can in fact hinder performance.
You've tuned motorcycles, but you also change the a/f ratio, and carb jets. In this case, spark plugs can make a big difference. But in a 4 cylinder, computer-controlled engine, where the air/fuel mix is changed by the computer, the spark plugs and the amount of spark they produce are not taken into consideration by the computer algorithms - only the timing is changed, and not the force of the spark.
This discussion is not about fully-tuned motors - it is about the benefits or detriments of more powerful spark plugs in an otherwise stock engine.
About the heat generated - this is not myth, I have witnessed it in my own vehicle. There is no way that a spark plug alone can cause a lean condition. Upon changing to SplitFire plugs in my Miata, I witnessed some knocking and pinging. Under the advice of a mechanic, I got rid of them and went back to stock NGKs - the pinging went away completely and immediately. He explained that the reason was they burn too hot, and I was getting detonation, and pre-ignition upon compression from the excess heat. I did also notice a slight increase in engine temp gauge readings while those plugs were installed, so what he said makes perfect sense.
The basics of combustion prove that a "bigger" spark does nothing unless you change other factors. You might not agree with my harispray example, but frankly, your sawdust example is worse. So let's clear that up, and use the a/f ratio for it.
Forgetting compression for a second; if you put equal amounts of a mixture of atomized gasoline and oxygen into two containers, there will be no difference in the force or speed with which they combust based upon the spark that is used to ignite the mix. If the containers were swimming pool-sized, and you ignited one with a match, and the other with a flamethrower, they would still BURN and COMBUST at the SAME rate and with the same amount of energy.
Using wood as an example is not a good analogy. But another decent one is to take balloon filled with hydrogen. Use the Hindenburg zeppelin if you like!

. Would the hindenburg have burned FASTER or with more FORCE and ENERGY if the explosion was caused by a match flame rather than a simple tiny static spark? No, it wouldn't. All that matters is that the ignition source is powerful enough to start combustion.
Combustion in an engine is nearly instantaneous. The duration or force of the spark makes no difference in the rate of combustion so long as the spark IS forceful enough to ignite the mix. We're not talking about the combustability of different octane grades of gasoline - that's a whole other discussion. This is using the same fuel, same a/f ratio, and ONLY changing the characteristics of the spark - nothing else.
By adding other factors into the mix, the spark characteristics can play a role, of course. But this is about hot plugs on a stock motor.
The fact that today's cars run leaner than ever before makes my argument even more valid - that the use of plugs that raise combustion chamber temperatures has an adverse effect on performance. If a lean condition causes excess heat, and today's cars run quite lean as compared to cars of years prior, then today's engines generally run hotter. Thus, the need to NOT induce excess heat is even stronger, and the tendency for an engine to exhibit detonation from slight temperature increases is higher. In other words, in todays cars it's even MORE important to keep the plugs in the proper heat range. Again - I witnessed this first hand in my Miata.
If you want to refute my theory about hot plugs, that's fine. But you have to do it without changing any other factors in the engine. We can't "tune" our Protege's like a 2-stroke motorcycle engine, or an old carbuerated V8. With proper engine tuning, hotter plugs can in fact give more power and/or fuel economy. But without tuning the engine to utilize the extra spark (which the ECU of our cars is not designed to do on its own), hot plugs are an excercise in futility, and a waste of money.
~HH