Hi!
I have an AEM F/IC also, running N/A and moving towards boosted.
http://www.mazdas247.com/forum/showpost.php?p=4294741&postcount=72
First, let me say that the support from AEM by phone or on the AEM forum is very good in my experience.
http://forum.aempower.com/forum/index.php?PHPSESSID=7f432d9ec515cef8a3a780f6c5e47325&topic=20518.15
#1 - Does the car run fine with the bypass jumper installed?
#2 - Do you have the z110.hex firmware re-flashed?
#3 - Can you log a datafile? Run zeroed out on all maps as a calibration file.
Mine works, I never had to do anything to the alarm on the P5.
If the car was running before and the unit is properly wired, the car will run fine again with the bypass jumper installed.
How'd I do?