Sephiroth, what OP is probably trying to find out is a real phenemenon that is being experienced and well documented on highly modded 2.3 DISI engines, including photos of bent connecting rods on this engine. It seems to be most frequently on cylinder number 3 and there is a LOT of discussion about this.
The theory is that there is a design flaw in the small end of the connecting rod. I'm not allowed to cross-post to another forum, or I'd show that there are several threads on this by some very dedicated and serious professional and semi-professional engine builders with a lot of experience in high boost small displacement engines.
But, the problem seems to be on modded engines, especially when tuned in a manner that happens to significantly increase torque in the low rpm band where the turbo is just coming up on boost.
I don't pretend to know if these pretty experienced guys are onto anything, but many of us with mods are taking this seriously until we know more and are trying to stay out of boost between 2,500 rpm and 3,000 rpm by downshifting to a lower gear before going WOT so that rpm is at least a little above 3k.
I have read a few threads about this. One had pics comparing the stock rods / pistons to aftermarket ones. Apparently there was nothing wrong with the stockers. They are good for at least 400whp. As you mentioned the problem is the big torque spike that happens before the turbo is even at full boost. Its unecessary and the people that are making big numbers "safely" appear to have tunes that push that tq later in the powerband. Take a look at the race roots page. They have the highest hp mzr that I have seen. Just look at the dyno hp/tq curves. The other problem is fueling. Not saying im right or anything. Just trying to contribute.