I just need some opinions here PLEASE. I won't go into the details, but here is my deal:
If you're significant other, specifically a spouse, was talking to someone on the phone, texting, meeting them places - before telling you he is moving out, and even though you had your share of ups and downs, did NOT see this coming, is this to be considered cheating if he alone had planned it in advance?
So if they move out and in ONE week they have someone else that they met just two weeks before leaving...(unbeknownst to you) and are now dating (all within a week) is this considered cheating on your spouse if you had just been together a week prior? Say having sex one day with you and then all of a sudden, he's gone and taking her to a hotel the next weekend and they proclaim they are a couple after that one weekend. Granted, it has happened several times before with other women saying he was trying to "get with them" too - each time taking place during the course of the marriage - again, regardless of what you were going through with the other person.
Is talking, seeing and devising a plan TO cheat while married and then doing it one week later considered cheating? And remember, this is a marriage, not casual dating or simple boyfriend. There was a family involved.
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