Cheating Spouse

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Like a couple of the other guys said, even if he didn't physically cheat he was planning on it. Even if it's not "cheating" exactly, it is just as bad if not worse. Personally, I would much rather Joseph just hook up randomly with some chick then have this whole plan about what he was going to do. Just because you don't want to be with someone doesn't mean that it's okay to wait to leave until you have something else lined up. It's a marriage not a 7th grade girlfriend.

There's .02 from another girl.
 
laracroft said:
hahaha.. I'm moving to Orlando. Need to get out of the same area as him. Don't wany any trouble from him or his ghetto little skank. Not to mention the mutual acquaintences of his that think this is acceptable and just brush it off. They'll believe anything he says so they can stay part of his car club. I can see the downfall of that one like Pro-M before it. Or then, the RSX club or the Mini Cooper club or the Suburu he traded in two days. He was in and out of car clubs like he was women. He's been through 9 cars in 9 years. He can't make a good decision to save his life. He's in debt up to his ears, his bank always charges him fees for being withdrawn and his credit sucks. Can't say he's got anything to offer anyone. I wasn't with him for any other reason than blind love and devotion. But they'll see that it's all a front before long. He has this thing with being "liked" by everyone - no matter what lies he has to tell to bring them to "his side" of a distorted truth.
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You're way to pretty and nice to have to deal with that bulls***... I have to say I'm kinda glad to see it's over even though I didn't know what was going on until 3 minutes ago.
 
Wow, tried reading everyones post and start to learn a lot.
Im really sorry for what you are going thru lara, just keep your head up. Be strong knowing you are on the right side of things. Move on with your life, you are young and theres so much life is to offer you. Forget the guy, i know that years with him also had some fun times, but i know you can have a much better time and much more fun either being yourself or with a new partner. You got yout 2nd family here, we will back you up.


If you ever pass by ft worth, dont hesitate to contact me, ill buy you a nice ribeye steak . lol

KEEP you chin up girl.
 
If you want my honest advice, here it is.. If you are about to go through a divorce, don't post stuff like this on the internet. Threads like this can come back to bite you in the ass during a legal battle, no matter how honest and accurate they are. As much of a dog as he appears to be, you don't want this thread showing up in a line of questioning.
 
sorry to hear about all the pain lara..(notcool)..i could tell from that most recent post with your pic (office party?) that you had lost a bunch of weight...even though you hate the Pats (haha), i'll be thinking of you and your son, i'm sure things will get better for you..like a lot of things though, it will take time..hang in there! mark
 
seanmcsean said:
If you want my honest advice, here it is.. If you are about to go through a divorce, don't post stuff like this on the internet. Threads like this can come back to bite you in the ass during a legal battle, no matter how honest and accurate they are. As much of a dog as he appears to be, you don't want this thread showing up in a line of questioning.
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I'm not worried about it. I already saved where he said that she and he were already dating after a week when he left from the other forum. He said that he'd been talking to her and met her a few times before that and made it "official" this past weekend. Whatever the hell that means. It just sickens me since he was "with me" the same time he was talking to her.

But it can't get much worse than that for him to be open on the internet about it on his stupid car forum. He expects people to feel sorry for him because he says that we had a "failed" marriage. She said that I didn't try hard enough to save it??? How the hell does she knows what went wrong or right on our marriage - especially if she's just going off his word. I can't believe some people can be so gullible. Some girls will fall for anything if you make it sound pathetic enough. But she's scum to have started talking to a married man to begin with, no matter WHAT's going on in their marriage. It's none of her business. I wouldn't do that to anyone else and I'm not going to.

I don't feel like at this point right now, that I need someone. Society dictates that we should have someone "fill the void" and that being a couple is important to your own self worth. Well, it's not and I'll be fine on my own. I've already met several people that I can talk to as friends, but I don't see ANY need to get with them in any other way. I'm above his drama and neediness. And I don't feel comfortable enough in my mental situation right now to be able to offer anyone all my time and energy. It wouldn't be fair to them. But it just goes to show what kind of caliber of a man you are when you need a girl like her to take care of you since you're unable to get through anything alone.
 
I just wanted to tell u to be strong and hang in there girl... It may be a bumpy ride but I know your strong and can handle it
 
He's already got the skank on his myspace:
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What an asshole.

That's alright. He's getting served papers soon. (sssh)
 
DAMN he is a douche....

What did u ever see in him?


GAHHHH... you can do much better... Don't let him hold u down.. go out there and show him and the world that you are ready to kick ass :)

when u give him the papers make sure to tell him

"you just got SERVED"


:)
 
lol he shouldnt leave his photobucket open...

cute pic of him standing in front of the mirror (lol2)
 
As long as you are comfortable with this thread being out there.

I just remember my parents divorce, and it was very contentious. They used anything and everything in court to try to gain an edge.
 
I just found out that he's already cancelled my son's and I health insurance policies. I was supposed to go to the doctors to have myself checked out to make sure I didn't catch anything from he and his f** buddy. And now I can't. Great.
 
you can still go to the clinic I believe...they do stuff like that for free.
 
laracroft said:
I just found out that he's already cancelled my son's and I health insurance policies. I was supposed to go to the doctors to have myself checked out to make sure I didn't catch anything from he and his f** buddy. And now I can't. Great.
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I'd call the insurance company ASAP and talk to someone there. He may not be able to do that - they may have to offer you COBRA or something like that in the interim....
 
mckraut said:
+1, let's see this mirror pic.
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And get this - it was taken in the last 3 weeks. I can tell by the way my hand lotion is lined up- yes, in MY bathroom, in my OWN home. I've never seen this pic. He probably took it and sent it to his mistress. It just makes me sooo ill to think he took this, sent it to another girl, then jumped in bed with me right afterward. (blarf)
 
laracroft said:
I just found out that he's already cancelled my son's and I health insurance policies. I was supposed to go to the doctors to have myself checked out to make sure I didn't catch anything from he and his f** buddy. And now I can't. Great.
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Wow... that's pretty weak. I'd suggest getting a good lawyer. He obviously likes cars so.... take him for a ride!
 
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