*sigh*......single again

Well,at least you had a relationship,Vic!

At 23,I'm still trying to find a girl to be my first(gf)...AAAaaaaahhhh!!!Yes,I know..pathetic!(sigh)
 
Phoenix5 said:
Well,at least you had a relationship,Vic!

At 23,I'm still trying to find a girl to be my first(gf)...AAAaaaaahhhh!!!Yes,I know..pathetic!(sigh)
thats alright. I've never had a "girlfriend" either. dont really need one, can get your thrills from friends with benifits. Not really lookin for one, but I think I am starting too now. or in a few years.
 
Phoenix5 said:
Well,at least you had a relationship,Vic!

At 23,I'm still trying to find a girl to be my first(gf)...AAAaaaaahhhh!!!Yes,I know..pathetic!(sigh)
Same here, except I just turned 24. (encourage
 
well, what's worse?

1. not finding a gf? or
2. going through all the BS of relationships and still not finding the right one?
 
ChopstickHero said:
well, what's worse?

1. not finding a gf? or
2. going through all the BS of relationships and still not finding the right one?


WERD....But the thing about going through the BS is..that you learn, and apply to the next relationship....
 
or you can just watch and learn from those that are around you that are close to you and are in relationships. not saying do what they do, but learn. lookin in to a situation from a 3rd party perspective is always best for anything, even when it involves oneself. since many find it hard to do a third party perspective on themselves, use it on others
 
vindication said:
or you can just watch and learn from those that are around you that are close to you and are in relationships. not saying do what they do, but learn. lookin in to a situation from a 3rd party perspective is always best for anything, even when it involves oneself. since many find it hard to do a third party perspective on themselves, use it on others

yeah, 3rd perspective is definitely useful. especially when you're using it to look at your friend's relationships to see how messed up they are! lol... but it is definitely hard to use it on your own. easier to dish out the advice than use it yourself.
 
hey vic...i feel your pain. same thing happened to me on saturday. fiance` just up and left me...oh well...life goes on and there are plenty of strip clubs to chase the blues away
 
relationships are cool.
there is just something about it when you get to know a person on such a level.
it's very interesting.

i dunno....personally i've never had a bad realtionship.
never a bad fight or an argument.....i see no point in it.
little dissagreements are fine though.
 
sup monkey. you'll be fine. now that you'll have a little bit more money it's time to get that new car. :D
 
WA!!!!WTF!!111
why am i in your sig!!??11

lmao.

u're right about the money though ;)
 
I'm still not understanding something....if everything was going good...and you never had a bad moment..Why in the hell did you two break up?...

you say you knew her on a certain level, does that mean she had habits that you did not like?....you people take relationships so lightly, when in fact it's a beautiful thing....a part of life
 
we've realized that we were too different.
i guess i realized more than she did ;)

she's a great girl....smart, beautiful......just not for me.
i'm sure she'll make someone who is more compatible with her very happy.
i've tought here a thing or two about relationships that i'm sure she'll utilize in her future experiences.

when i say i knew her on a different level i mean that we enjoyed our relationship on much higher level than most people.
and trust me, i take my relationships very seriously....nothing but 110%.
i dont regret a minute of it.
 
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ChopstickHero said:
well, what's worse?

1. not finding a gf? or
2. going through all the BS of relationships and still not finding the right one?

Honestly,I think not finding a gf is worse, bc I have come to the conclusion that being single for this long has really gotten to me,especially when I see couples making out or simply just walking together.I mean,it's not really a high priority and a gf can be expensive,but I'm really tired of being lonely:(!It's really not fair when guys who are complete jackasses get the girl,while nice guys like me get s***!(headshake)

I mean if it was a choice between staying single,and not dealing w/ arguements or gettn into arguements but having someone,I'd seriously take the 2nd choice.
 
Pheonix5....it never pays to be the nice guy, unfortunately.....you have to do something that will boost your confidence, and make you jerkish...like me I am heavily working out, and studying fighting arts..
 

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