J dragon said:Pheonix5....it never pays to be the nice guy, unfortunately.....you have to do something that will boost your confidence, and make you jerkish...like me I am heavily working out, and studying fighting arts..
Well,I used to be REALLY shy around girls but ever since,I started my job at a Kohl's department store(which requires customer service and just mainly talking to people),my confidence level has "sky rocketed".I mean now I can talk to girls easily(lol2),I even went after girls at work,but time and time agn,I get shot down