it should be on the passengers side floorboard towards the firewall, under the carpet of course. i think the also are under a little metal plate to protect it from being stepped on all the time.
The Jspec engine is completely different. Different cams, pistons, compression ratio, intake and exhuast manifolds. It has 170 ps which is about 162hp. It also uses an OBD-I where as your mp3 uses OBD-II. Technically you could use your stock ecu, but the power is in the OBD I.
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