GAspeedProtege
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That's what I'm doing, luckily I have good friends to hang out with. 
Who wants an update on my ex?!?!
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1) You aren't handling the situation well...either don't talk to her at all, or be cool with her (which it doesn't sound like you're prepared to do)
2) She sounds incredibly immature and b****y...you sound like you need to do a little growing, too. Take this experience and learn from it...I know you're gonna say that you are, but that's not the case...refer to #1 for explanation as to why...
3) You're definitely better off without her...but try not to fall for any girl in that way again. I'm still getting over a 4 1/2 year relationship and it's been a few months since we split. Thing is, she still loves me, and wants to hang out...but she's seeing someone else right now. I can't cope with that...so as hard as it is for me to give up the woman that's my best friend, I understand that it's what I have to do right now. Maybe sometime in the future because we understand each other better than any other people we know. But your situation sounds more like my situation with my first ex...if you don't let go and stop seeing her, then the same thing that happened to me (breakdown) will just as soon happen to you. And believe me...it's not fun to rebuild who you are, and redefine your beliefs based on what you learn from your mistakes...but the sooner you come to this realization, the easier it will be.
2) She sounds incredibly immature and b****y...you sound like you need to do a little growing, too. Take this experience and learn from it...I know you're gonna say that you are, but that's not the case...refer to #1 for explanation as to why...
3) You're definitely better off without her...but try not to fall for any girl in that way again. I'm still getting over a 4 1/2 year relationship and it's been a few months since we split. Thing is, she still loves me, and wants to hang out...but she's seeing someone else right now. I can't cope with that...so as hard as it is for me to give up the woman that's my best friend, I understand that it's what I have to do right now. Maybe sometime in the future because we understand each other better than any other people we know. But your situation sounds more like my situation with my first ex...if you don't let go and stop seeing her, then the same thing that happened to me (breakdown) will just as soon happen to you. And believe me...it's not fun to rebuild who you are, and redefine your beliefs based on what you learn from your mistakes...but the sooner you come to this realization, the easier it will be.
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