Need more info. When are you leaving for school? How much do you expect to have saved up? Will you be able to make payments or do you need to pay cash for something used (abused?)
Second thing, and from a Dad's perspective. Unless you're paying for ALL of your own school costs, and your own car insurance he's not bein an asshole, he's just being responsible. I Don't mean to rag on you! I know what you're feeling, and I probably would have felt exactly like that way when I was 18 or 19 but still...(Yo, I had to BEG to borrow my mom's '76 Ford Granada when I was in college. You don't even KNOW my pain. That thing SUCKED!!!!!lol!)
Real world scenario #1 You take the Pro to college. You and buds meet girls from nearby school or town. Party asses off and hop in the Pro to get more beer/pizza/condoms whatever. Worst case scenario, dead son, best case scenario wrecked Pro. All cases expensive for Dad. Give him a break, he's just looking out for ya buddy! That's what Dad's do even if it seems crummy sometimes.
OK lesson over, what about the car? How much can you afford?