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Minus said:
i dont want to go anywhere. everything reminds me of her. my bed, my couch, my pictures, when i get in my car, the things that she gave me, she was such a great girl and loved cars almost as much as i did. before the mini cooper she had a 96 mazda miata. i wish she had gotten a cadillac or a buick or something huge and made of steel
I've felt that way about ex's, but I haven't been where you are now. Sorry I can't relate.
 
yeah i mean its easier letting go of someone that you simply didn't get along with, but when its someone that you loved every aspect of its a little bit different. sure we fought all the time, but we never got out of hand with it and always made up the next day. :P she will always be in my heart and on my mind
 
Oh my God, I am so sorry this has happened to you Minus. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and to her family. A terrible tragedy like this shouldn't have to be experienced by anyone, I hope you can find the peace you need to deal with the loss of your love. :(
 
P.S. Always remember that we are all here for you, you have a ginormous shoulder to cry on and huge ears to listen. :)
 
I am so sorry for your loss. As I read your post I began to get goose bumps and a chill down my spine she seemed like a very beautiful sweet person from her pic and her brother looked like one of those guys who was always happy. My prayers are with you and the family of your lost ones. All you can do is know that they are with the lord now and probably looking down on your right now, be strong they are still with you in spirit.
 
damn.. well i donno if u remember or not but i went thru the same thing months ago when my lil brother lost his fiance.. its hard man.. all u can do is keep moving forward and always remember her the way u loved her..
u got alot of ears here if u need to talk.. sometimes it just easier to deal if someone will just listen an let you vent.
Rest In Power..
 
Sorry to hear that Minus. I'm not religous but I feel for you.

Don't know if you'll feel up to it. But we have a meet in Atlanta on the 27th. If you think coming out will take your mind off this even a little bit we'd love to have you.
 
Wiccans view death as the last passage each of us will experience. It's a natural part of life itself. We believe in the 'Summerlands', a place where spirts go between lives. The spirits of those who have gone before are there and will greet the person upon arrival. They are never alone. The place of rest is just that, rest. Those that have passed away are still amoung us in spirit and they manafest themselves in the world around us while they rest. Every time you feel the breeze, warm sun on your face, birds singing first thing in the morning when you awake... these will all be comforts from her. If you believe in the life hereafter, have faith in the belief that you will meet again.
 
Minus: sounds like you're taking this well for what happend and who she was to you. And that takes a very strong person indeed. Im sorry to hear about your losses and know that you are in my prayers. If there is anything any of us can do you know you can ask.
 
Minus said:
i think she was in a better place when she layed in my arms for hours
I am very sorry to hear about your losses.

I am sure she must have been in a better place when laying in your arms for hours. Just remember that and hold onto that memory because you are confident that you had an impact on her life and made her truly happy. Everyone eventually has to die, but to know that you could have such a positive impact on her life means a lot.
 
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Minus man, I'm so sorry to hear that news. I'm sure you feel horrible right now but my condolences to her family and his, I am sorry for your loss and I keep the three of you in my prayers; One man for a continueing of life, one man and woman for a safe journey to light.
 
Hey Minus, Im not religous but my thoughts and condolences go out to you, ur family, and ur girlfriends family. It's funny how you can tell alot from a persons eyes, and after looking at her pictures one can see that she was a sweet, fun loving person. Consider yourself lucky to have shared wonderful moments with a person so angelic. Keep your head up, and allow ur love for her to carry you into the successful future I'm sure she wanted for you.
Much LOVE my brother.........
 
Love to you, Brother. I'm terribly sorry, my prayers go out to you and their families.
-B
 
Holy s*** dude, I'm borderline in tears just reading that and seeing her pics. :(
 
May peace and blessing be with you and their families. And just remember this even when its cloudy outside the sun is still shinning behind them. Much love to you...
 

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