You must:
A) Not have many friends.
B) Must be unattractive and find even the average female attractive enough to "contact."
C) Be an asshole and not talk to ugly people just for the sheer fact that they are ugly.
D) All of the above.
Don't take this is so much as a personal attack, I just couldn't go without saying something because that is one of my pet peeves. I, for one, will often tend to find an otherwise "average" woman attractive once I can begin to see her personality unfold, as long as it's what I admire in a woman.
*End thread jack*