All you really have to do is have the dealer (with you as a witness) take off the battery box and check the bolt (torquing it as necessary)to make sure it's to spec. You can also insist that they support the transmission while doing it so it takes some weight off the bolt while they're checking it. That way, the bolt wouldn't seem tighter than it actually is.
If the dealer refuses, then walk out and find another dealer that will. If that's not possible, as soon as you take delivery have a reputable shop or somebody you trust check it for you. Once that bolt is torqued like it should, it's very unlikely you'll have problems with it.
Many people who claimed to have checked it previously and it still broke, never really checked using a torque wrench. Some merely looked at it while others basically took a socket wrench and briefly checked it. Without a torque wrench the bolt will seem tight, when in actuality, it's no where near the spec it should be at.