MY girl goes to retreat

[styles_t]

how come no one is answering now

 

[Newf]

"my opinion is that anyone who goes to those things to" find themselves" has a weak mind"


You said it right yourself. And anyone that has to do that s***....ain't worth the time imho. complete utter nonsense, bulls***, brainwashing crap. It's called a CULT, whether they believe in a God, or the devil, it doesn't matter.....it's a Cult people.

By the way, I don't believe in god, I believe in something called science, and my life is defined by my decisions, and those around me. If I **** it up, it's my own fault.

 

[styles_t]

i did say "they have a weak mind' but my girl is worth it

she is a nice person besides her attitude that she had once in a while but thats life, nobody is perfect, everybody has things that another person dont like

so i feel that she's worth it

 

[orangezoom]

Why would you say they have a weak mind?

 

[orangezoom]

The last four presidents were religous people, two went to Yale one went to Oxford the fourth I am not sure, I do not think they have weak minds.

 

[styles_t]

you never answered my question

i say this because they have to turn to somebody else telling them whats right or wrong and that they cant figure things out themselves. when you have people (in this case, her church) telling you whats right or wrong then that means you can think for yourself

 

[styles_t]

religious is not suppose by law be put into place with government

then that would be called a dictatorship, so yeah, they can be religious and have weak minds but like i said, it cant be put into politics, that's why they went to "YALE, oxford" are those religious schools or smart schools

 

[orangezoom]

What question?

You know we are lucky some countrys we could not even discuss this, but everyone is intitled to there own opinion.

 

[orangezoom]

religious is not suppose by law be put into place with government

then that would be called a dictatorship, so yeah, they can be religious and have weak minds but like i said, it cant be put into politics, that's why they went to "YALE, oxford" are those religious schools or smart schools

I do not understand this, I did not say that they brought religion into the government I was just trying to say that these men did not have weak minds.

 

[styles_t]

this is what i posted before


"im talking to you guys, seeing things in other people's point of view

let me ask you guys a question

after all this long conversation that we having, do any of you know why the reason for me starting this thread, do you actually understand what's bothering me and has me upset"

 

[orangezoom]

Of course I understand your popint of veiw, You are in love with this girl, she goes on a retreat and finds herself, comes back and everytrhing has changed, she wants to get married before she moves in with you.
You have had your world turned upside down it a matter of weeks, I think almost every guy on this web site can relate to you in some way or another.

 

[styles_t]

my answer to that was they do have weak minds if they into there religion like what my girl is doing

just because you went to those big schools doesnt mean anything, having a weak mind and being smart are 2 different things

i'm into religion a little - i make my own decisions

maybe that's how the past presidents were

 

[styles_t]

the term "find yourself" or "saved" i dont like

it makes no sense to me

"saved" from what, is somebody trying to hurt you? ?

"find yourself", were you lost or something, where did you go to get lost? ?

 

[orangezoom]

my answer to that was they do have weak minds if they into there religion like what my girl is doing

just because you went to those big schools doesnt mean anything, having a weak mind and being smart are 2 different things

i'm into religion a little - i make my own decisions

maybe that's how the past presidents were

I tend to dissagree with you on this point, I do not beleave that I have a weak mind because I love the lord, and am religous.

 

[styles_t]

are you able to make your own decision, if yes then you dont have a weak mind, if you do what "the lord" tells you to do then you do have a weak mind

but then again, if you into your "lord" as you are - you are not going to think this

so we are in a lose lose situation here

you think i'm wrong and i think you're wrong

 

[orangezoom]

Saying someone has a weak mind just because they have religion is "judgeing people"

I only have to answer to one person and I beleave that that person will judge me when the time comes and you know what when that day comes I am going to try my best to be ready.

 

[orangezoom]

I do not think you are wrong, I just think I am right.

 

[styles_t]

"Saying someone has a weak mind just because they have religion is "judgeing people""

i'm saying someone who has religion and cant make their OWN decision have weak minds

religion and money are the 2 biggest problems in this world - the same way we going on and on about this people are killing themselves so that proves their's no answer to anything

 

[styles_t]

"I do not think you are wrong, I just think I am right."

thats the same as thinking i'm wrong - lets be honest now

if i'm not wrong then what am I

 

[orangezoom]

Like I said I do not judge, I beleave in the lord and that comes through faith. It is easy to beleave in something that is right in front of you, not so easy to beleave in something you can not see. Only through the Grace of God will we have eternal life.