Interesting P5Mike...having owned both. I personally love the coupes, whether M or not (but of course preferring the M) - of course, for the money I'd hafta drive a lot of stuff first before deciding...but then, I'm partial to German class, substance and styling.
As for the original post, if you want to look more like a German car, remember one word as far as styling: CLEAN. A lot of Japanese cars are getting there (love the styling of my MSP, this after owning 5 different VW's, and the new Acura TL comes to mind), but most imo are still not as stylish or classy as a German ride...
my .02 for the helluva it.