I drive a manual and in commuter mode I shift at 2,500rpm to save on gas, you'd think I was driving a diesel bus or something. lol. (The commuter bus used to be manual transmission 10 years ago, it was pretty cool). Just because I drive manual I don't drive crazy all the time, in normal driving mode I won't shift more than 3,000rpm usually, once in awhile when I need the extra lift I'll rev it up to 4, 5, 6, but I could easily do that in an automatic by mashing the gas pedal to the floor. I honestly don't mind driving manual in traffic, it's all the other @$$hole drivers that get to me more than my transmission which is why I choose to take commuter rail instead lol, it's saved us from having to buy a second car.