Im Falling for her

[mp5_57]

Ok here is another thread about relationship help. First of all I believe I am falling for this girl ive known for about a year and half. We have been good friends since we met, but in the past 3 weeks things have gotten a bit different. She is very flirty with me and is very touchy feely. Lately for the past week we have been on the phone for hours each night. Talking about everything. The conversations with this girl never get dull and there are not points of silence which i have experienced with most other girls ive talked to. She is smart, attractive, funny, fun to be around ,and everything else that I am looking for in a girl. The other night on the phone we were talking and she dropped a few hints that she might like me more than friends. One hint stuck out the most though. We had been talking for over 3 hours and i was like this is the longest i have ever talked to anyone on the phone and she was like "me too....wait no ive talked to people on the phone for this long its just been old boyfriends". So i was thinking about that and why would she talk to me on the phone for so long and especially after saying something like that. She dropped a bit more subtle hints before that ...but not that significant.

I think she likes me.... but im not sure. When she comes over to my house she always is massaging my back and hugging on me and smiling and being flirty......and it has gotten more and more frequent.

I really really like her and just dont know if i should ask her out officially. What do you all think i should do.

Thank you all
J

 

[PhreakV]

I'd say to just go ahead and ask her out full on, but if your nervous about it...

ask her if she wants to go out to grab a bite to eat and catch a movie. then you 'try' to pay for dinner and get her movie ticket. if she let's you then things are going well and you can ask her out 'officially' within the next couple days...

have fun

 

[TiGrayMsp716]

Uh... what grade are you in? Really? Geez man. If you want her take her out on a DATE. Posession is 9/10ths of the law....

 

[VizaX]

I'd say ask her if she likes ya then go from there, But of course Im only 19 (yes)... anyway if she does like you then Ask her out, if not stay friends, I mean if you find out she doesnt like you more than a friend she Isnt going to hate you for liking her. I hope this helps

 

[Heathen23]

You don't make a move at this point and you will be stuck in "friend mode". Don't be a chump. Ask her out, take her somewhere nice and let her know how you are feeling about her. Otherwise you will end up on the outside looking in.

 

[turboge]

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Here are two seeds for you, drink some water and they will help you grow a set of balls...

Seriously you have nothing to lose, someone has to be assertive and it should be you. Just ask her if she wants to go out this weekend and use your body language and speech to let her know you want her. Then when the nights over just undo her bra and smack her ass and she'll know you mean business.

 

[TiGrayMsp716]

Uh so how old are you guys.... That would allow us to give better answers... not really trying to flame or anything

 

[Mazdaspeedgirl]

Just bite the bullet and do it!

I agree with Heathen. If you don't she could slip away. Believe, she was wanting to get together long before she started dropping the subtle hints

 

[Kona Bear]

Dude,

She likes you. Go and ask her out or I'll have to slap you.

KB

 

[lasermp5]

lol. just do it. re-read what you posted yourself........ ok? now don't you think you kind of answered your own question? lol. if all the signs point to yes, then maybe, just maybe she is interested ya think? Anyways good luck.

 

[gjmoreo]

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Here are two seeds for you, drink some water and they will help you grow a set of balls...

Seriously you have nothing to lose, someone has to be assertive and it should be you. Just ask her if she wants to go out this weekend and use your body language and speech to let her know you want her. Then when the nights over just undo her bra and smack her ass and she'll know you mean business.

LOL ... slappa dat ass boyEE

 

[03.5YellowMSP]

lets make a how-to on this.


j/k


Naw man she wants you. You just have to let her know. If you don't she is gonna find someone else and you'll be stuck with this question for the rest of your life, "What if i would have told her i liked her?". Whats the worst that could happen she says she doesnt like you and yall stay friends. If she doesnt like ya and doesnt want to stay friends you are better off without her.

Then after all that you slapp dat ass.

 

[t3ase]

I'll have Lisa stop by here for yet another girl's opnion...

 

[cbcbd]

god, isn't it obvious?

You don't have to say anything, just take her out somewhere, as soon as she gives you that tilter down head look just kiss her, end of story. Or just kiss her next time you see her, she won't turn it down.

kids

 

[sooperficial]

I think this girl OBVIOUSLY wants you to ask her out. Don't be retarded and ask her out before she gives up on you...or before someone beats you to it. Trust me, I'm a girl and if im going to give some guy a massage, it's because I want him...and not in a friendly way. Don't be so shy or insecure, its a sure thing...just go for it. Thank me later.

 

[gjmoreo]

I think this girl OBVIOUSLY wants you to ask her out. Don't be retarded and ask her out before she gives up on you...or before someone beats you to it. Trust me, I'm a girl and if im going to give some guy a massage, it's because I want him...and not in a friendly way. Don't be so shy or insecure, its a sure thing...just go for it. Thank me later.

OK then ... if you say so ... "will you go out with me?"

... oh, and yeah ... thanks for the massage

 

[Caffein8d]

MY Relationship just ended. **** you all.

 

[t3ase]

OK then ... if you say so ... "will you go out with me?"

... oh, and yeah ... thanks for the massage

HAR HAR HAR ******.

 

[sooperficial]

OK then ... if you say so ... "will you go out with me?"

... oh, and yeah ... thanks for the massage

In your dreams......

 

[batmang]

ask her dood. no harm in trying. never know until you try right, do it!