Im Falling for her

now that i think about it, if your talking on the phone for hours, and she is flirting with you all the time, its obvious she likes you more then a friend. if you were to ask her out on a date, and she said no, then she is a HUGE tease, and you should get mad if that was the case, and point out your view. otherwise your her b**** boytoy.
 
Upon further review of my previous statements (and another intervention) I respectively retract my comments directed towards sooperficial ... Fo-give me?
 
mp5_57, screw asking her out.... next time you are with her, just grab her and kiss her.... it'll work out the same i think

she OBVIOUSLY wants you to... DO IT!!!!
 
Ryan does have a good point. Try to kiss her then take it as far as she'll let you. You may be able to get everything you want w/o the relationship
 
If you're worried about rejection, which it seems you shouldn't be with all the things you said about her, just say "We should go out some time." Statements rather than questions will keep you safe from rejection. Good luck, man.
 
well, thats not exactly where I was going with that. What I was really saying is that its just THAT OBVIOUS that she likes you. Don't puss-out just go for it!
 
yeah, no doubt. I think the overwhelming opinion of people here is to go with it and I agree. If you don't, she'll be one of those girls you will regret never getting together with while you're drinking.........alone..........at the bar........sitting next to a fat chick....named "Rhonda"....that oddly has a 5-o'clock shadow....and drinks straight whiskey chased by vodka...*shudders*

ASK HER OUT!
 
this is something ive learned, do not just say will u go out with me.

ask her on a date just be cool about it. then if it works out up the status.
 
SCREW that - I'm apparently the only one here with a brain. Keep cashing in on those free massages and string things along the way they are as long as possible. Once you're an "item" it all goes down hill. TRUST me.
 
Definitely work in a kiss "test" it will make things way less uncomfortable than asking her out- cause if you are mis-reading her, you can always say, wow, just got caught up in the moment and move on..... But it sounds like you shouldn't have any issues with it....
 
mp5_57 said:
Lately for the past week we have been on the phone for hours each night. Talking about everything. The conversations with this girl never get dull and there are not points of silence which i have experienced with most other girls ive talked to.

Ahh, memories.
It used to be like that with my girlfriend, but after 8 years.....I'd pay for silence (rofl)
 
On a serious note, it doens't matter how, but go for a walk with her. Talk...have a good time, at the end of it...make a slow move for her. Touch her face gentlly and then go in for the kill. Slow and easy.

Never has the slow walk ending witha sentual kiss failed. ITS FOOL PROOF. Unless you try to tongue her to death or something.
 
I've had the same EXACT same situation a few years ago. I made the first move, but she stopped me. I was crushed. :( Only then I realized, we will be friends and ONLY friends. That hurt for a long time, but has definitely made me stronger and more assertive, because I am THE SHIZNIT. :D

Don't let my situation discourage you though ;) . I just wouldn't go into the situation expecting anything.
 

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