HELP!!! Dealing with a physco

BiGx5MurF

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2004 Mazdaspeed MX5
OK, so its like this, me and 2 other friends from school, we used to hang out with this 4th guy. He was extremely cocky, refused to let anyone else except himself have an opinion, and talked shiet about every single one of us if we weren't present. None of us liked him, but my other two friends insisted we put up with him since he's "just a chihuahua, all bark no bite". Well we began to stop calling him out to hang out, and didn't invite him to gatherings and such. He tries to salvage his friendship with one of us, but eventually gets the message.

Less than a week later, my friend's 89 BMW L6 gets a slashed tire, obviously done with a screw driver. A week later, my other friend's 03 SE-R gets a 4 inch half slash on one of his tires, which leaked air out slowly. We thought wutever, report it to cops, and forget about it. The cops said, ok if he gets caught for anything after our report, he gets double the punishment.

We thought that was the end of that. Today I drove home after classes as usual, and something didn't feel right. Like I was driving in the rain, but the pavement was dry. Took it easy, got home, went to gas station, checked tire pressure. Results? One missing valve cap, variations from 18psi to 34 psi. Every tire had a different pressure. That same morning I drove to school, without any of the problems I had on my way home. I don't know if the cap was missing, before, or if someone was letting pressure out of my tires, and lost it. The weather's been getting warmer, pressure should be going up, not down. Last time I checked pressure was around 3 months ago. I have no proof of anything, and all I know is that tommorrow, I have to file another police report. Which I'm pretty sure will do nothing to stop this vandalism.

Anyone have any advice?

btw: he purposely parks next to us every freakin day.
 
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The civil response would be to confront him, CALMY, and talk it out like adults. Show a bit of respect, agree to disagree, and be over it.
The not-so-civil approach, the one which I favor, would be to kick his teeth in.
Good luck, which ever path you choose.
 
get a life you dipshit!!! (Terri, not the original thread starter)

anyways, that's some f'ed up stuff and if anyone did that to my car, I'd have my silent revenge on that guy.
 
there are 3 things off limits in my life. my friends, my family, and my car, all of equal importance. if anyone messes with any of those things (and i make this clear to everyone i know) i lose my cool, which is very rare. no one has ever messed with my car, but my mom (who is a teacher) was threatened by a students father. my mom called me at school (i was still in h.s.) scared shitless cuz dudes like threatening her, and the school cops were just trying to talk him down. i walked out of my class, drove to her school, confronted the dude, he then threatened my mother again, and i, a 17 yr old hs student beat a 45 year old redneck down in a middle school. the cops had to pull me off of the dude. moral is, dont let that stand ;)
 
The first thing to do is talk it over. You know the guy. If you think that would work, do it. If not, you can just get a restraining order. It's quick (no more than two visits to a judge, most often one), and it's valid for anywhere from 6 months to 2 years, even for minor stuff like this. Best part is, since it is the car he is going after, you can specifically ask that the order be construed to include not just your person and home, but the car as well, regardless of where it's parked. He violates that, he goes to jail.

That's never a good first option. Talk it out with him, preferably in person, and WITH RESPECT. Give it, even if you dont get it or the other person doesnt deserve it.

I often take "Road B," but never advocate it for other people. It can sometimes just lead to escalation, the sort of which ends up in the papers if the dude is actually nuts.
 
does your school have survalliance cameras in the parking lot? Where i go to school, there are cameras all over the place.
 
Well I ended up filing another police report today. Linked it with the other one my friend filed about 2 months ago. Asked about cameras in parking lots, turns out only faculty parking areas have those.

I've always been a supporter of violence, but its about time I learn not to take that route, five years of probation does that to you. I've thought about setting up hidden cameras, but thats not really an option, we don't have any windows that has a good view of parking spots, other than the handicapped spots.

As for the restraining order option, remember I have no proof he did any of this, only thing I'm basing it on is that its all too coincedental. Will a restraining order really be possible without any form of hard evidence?

What's really f'ed up is the fact that he doesn't, and probably never will realize why no one wants to be his friend. When we used to hang out with him, I can recall at least 3 instances, where other ppl have told us "yo, next time, don't bring that kid". We never even officially told him we don't want to hang out with him. We just never called him out during winter break, and when school started again, he came into my friend's dorm, and we ignored him while he acted like the place belonged to him, He did this for 3 days, and each of those days, when any of us were alone with him, he'd talk loads of shiet about the other 2 of us that weren't present. To put it best, it seems as though his goal in life was to have all his friend's hate him.

To put it simply, he's cocky, refuses to let anyone else have an opinion, believes he's god's gift to everyone, is a master at everything, everything that he owns is the best, and everything everyone else owns is crap, he's productive and everyone else is a loser, everything he wants is the greatest thing, and everything everyone else wants is garbage. Eventually his mole hills of bulls***, became the himalayas of bulls***.

The truth about him? The authorities have tried to put his mom in an institution 2x already. He's never had a gf, much less even touched a woman, yet he tries to tell all of us how to hit on women, and run our relationships. He's worked on computers for 2 years, and believes he's so much better than me and my friend who've each had 9 years of experience. He's addicted to strip clubs. He went around telling people I, along with another friend was gay, and refused to let anyone argue on our behalf. He tried to convince my gf I visited ***** houses, because she was busy on my bday. The list can go on for practically forever, and sadly he will never realize why he loses all his friends.
 
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What I'm really mad about though, is the fact that for two of us, it wasn't just our cars he was targeting, but in a way our lives too. If that semi'slash on my friend's car blew in the middle of the highway, he could've lost his life. In fact the only reason he really found that slash was because the L6 got slashed, and we were suspicious of him. The way my car handled was off so much from wrong pressure in every tire, that had the weather not been clear, something could've happened to me.
 
man... i ran into something similar but not nearly as extreme.

Ummm try, hidden cam under ur car, or to the ceiling of the car.
So that everyone that walks by ur car is filmed.
 
BlueMonsta said:
man... i ran into something similar but not nearly as extreme.

Ummm try, hidden cam under ur car, or to the ceiling of the car.
So that everyone that walks by ur car is filmed.

do you know of a wireless self powered hidden camera? I don't, can you show me where to buy one?
 
you live too far away for me to help
I say have someone else...convienently make his life hell
beat the s*** out of him
kill him...

the other person should be someone with no ties to you, if you'd like you can fly me up there (should be cheaper than a camera) and I'll take care of him with a baseball bat..he won't be able to walk to touch your car
 
ZeroAccess said:
you live too far away for me to help
I say have someone else...convienently make his life hell
beat the s*** out of him
kill him...

the other person should be someone with no ties to you, if you'd like you can fly me up there (should be cheaper than a camera) and I'll take care of him with a baseball bat..he won't be able to walk to touch your car

err, nice offer, thanx really. But like I mentioned, I'm done tangling with the law.
 
Get a AC adpater for your car and plug it in....

Granted it'll probably kill ur battery, but hey, u got two of ur friends' cars beside u...

worth a shot
 
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