You're missing the point here. No one disagrees with 1 fundamental aspect of AT fluid. If you or the 1st. owner never flushed it before 60 to 100k (maybe did just a drain & fill or not even that) then one MUST, ABSOLUTELY refrain from flush.
However, if someone is REGULARLY flushing it every 30k miles, then as I understood it's okay and fine.
That was not the case here.
Both shops recommended against EVER flushing it (not even at 30K miles).