If it's always CEL with cylinder 3 misfire, it could be the injector. Move the injector down one cylinder to see if the CEL follows #3 to cylinder 2, giving a random misfire in cylinder 2. If so, bad injector. Could also be wiring to injector from PCM if it stays at #3.
thanks man.. gonna give it a try somehow.. sucks that i don't know how to get to the injectors